"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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evolvingnerd

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hey
going to meet up with a group of chicks this sat :)
except they're going out "clubbing" and my gropu is going out drinking. now, when we meet up with em, what's the sortta protocol?

we do'nt dance, and the thing is, i hate the prospect of dancing. i hate it so much so that i can maintain the presence of mind no matter how drunk i get, to not dance :(

anyway, i believe we're gonna meet them in the club, the place has a bar there too, but are we expected to dance? i dunno wtf is gonna happen
on the phone she just said "how about we go together"

ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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chicksrock

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I used to be like you, I HATED dancing.

But I made an effort...I got my ass out there on the dancefloor, (initially just to impress the ladies)

Fast Forward 3 years,
I LOVE dancing with a passion. I am an EXCELLENT dancer. I dance all the time... at home, in the car ...everywhere.
it has changed my life.
And I started like you --> hating dancing.

The earlier you start the better.

Start now...and go clubbing with those chix instead of drinking with your mates!
 
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You need to get over this phobia about dancing. Chicks love men who can dance. They equate it to being able to fawk good also.

And quess what.


It's true.
 

p1aya

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I hated dancing at first! But I started liking it more and more as I started going to clubs. Like these guys said, chix love guys who can dance ;) Sometimes I don't even need to approach chix in clubs; when I'm dancing they just come and start dancing with me :cool:
 
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