"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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help a n00b out plz

evolvingnerd

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hey
going to meet up with a group of chicks this sat :)
except they're going out "clubbing" and my gropu is going out drinking. now, when we meet up with em, what's the sortta protocol?

we do'nt dance, and the thing is, i hate the prospect of dancing. i hate it so much so that i can maintain the presence of mind no matter how drunk i get, to not dance :(

anyway, i believe we're gonna meet them in the club, the place has a bar there too, but are we expected to dance? i dunno wtf is gonna happen
on the phone she just said "how about we go together"

ideas?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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chicksrock

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I used to be like you, I HATED dancing.

But I made an effort...I got my ass out there on the dancefloor, (initially just to impress the ladies)

Fast Forward 3 years,
I LOVE dancing with a passion. I am an EXCELLENT dancer. I dance all the time... at home, in the car ...everywhere.
it has changed my life.
And I started like you --> hating dancing.

The earlier you start the better.

Start now...and go clubbing with those chix instead of drinking with your mates!
 
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You need to get over this phobia about dancing. Chicks love men who can dance. They equate it to being able to fawk good also.

And quess what.


It's true.
 

p1aya

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I hated dancing at first! But I started liking it more and more as I started going to clubs. Like these guys said, chix love guys who can dance ;) Sometimes I don't even need to approach chix in clubs; when I'm dancing they just come and start dancing with me :cool:
 
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