You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If there "almost as heavey as you", then I can see why they hit on you. Think about it. and,
I'm sure the skinny bimbos that you like are saying the samething about you. I'm not trying to be harsh but i'm just keeping it real and in prospective. My guess these fat girls figure you and them are in the same league since your the same size. And your chances of getting something hotter and skinner are the same chances are for them getting a male model type guy.Originally posted by Surprising
...What can I do to attract a girl who doesn't squash me