You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If there "almost as heavey as you", then I can see why they hit on you. Think about it. and,
I'm sure the skinny bimbos that you like are saying the samething about you. I'm not trying to be harsh but i'm just keeping it real and in prospective. My guess these fat girls figure you and them are in the same league since your the same size. And your chances of getting something hotter and skinner are the same chances are for them getting a male model type guy.Originally posted by Surprising
...What can I do to attract a girl who doesn't squash me