Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Am worried, despite my best efforts, all I seem to get are really fat girls. I'm not talking about a bit chubby but proper "almost as heavy as me" fat. What can I do to attract a girl who doesn't squash me :(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You are the man. It is your job to approach the woman and risk rejection. Only approach women who are not fat. If you just wait for them to approach you, this is what you will get. Women who are average or better will be approached all the time and therefore will not need to approach you and risk rejection.
 

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Originally posted by Surprising
... I'm not talking about a bit chubby but proper "almost as heavy as me" fat.
If there "almost as heavey as you", then I can see why they hit on you. Think about it. and,

Originally posted by Surprising
...What can I do to attract a girl who doesn't squash me :(
I'm sure the skinny bimbos that you like are saying the samething about you. I'm not trying to be harsh but i'm just keeping it real and in prospective. My guess these fat girls figure you and them are in the same league since your the same size. And your chances of getting something hotter and skinner are the same chances are for them getting a male model type guy.

So whocares if ugly and fat chicks hit on you. Deal with it, ignore it, and if possiable use it to your advantage. Don't be talkin all bad about it like those ho's that talk bad about you behind your back. Accept it and move on bro.
 
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