Help? A Don Juan who needs more balance?

[Analysis]

What's up,

I'm in a situation where I feel like I messed up with this girl who was really good to me. I've been dating her for 6 months but I've known her longer than that....She has cooked for me...bought me little things...an overall good girl..something I'm not used to experiencing.....but to make a long story short...About a month or so ago...We had a situation...where I felt she disrepected me but she really didn't....I felt she was being rude by not immediatly thanking me for a gift I sent to her house..She thanked me several days later....Instead of addresing then, I overeacted and never called her again...She has been blowing me up ever since....and texting me but I havn't called her back....I'm just learning these principles and I was being extra hard core....Now, I feel dumb....What can I do to ressurect this dumb mess with her without looking like a goofball?
Thanks....
PS. I was thinking about calling her back...telling her I have a little something for her for Christmas and hooking up.....What do you think?

 

[Stéphane]

You did everything perfect, she's begging for your attention. (Depends how long this been going on...) Anyways your not in the wrong here, just tell her that you were really busy with life, and stuff, and just didn't have the time to talk to her.

 

[Interceptor]

Go and apologize. If you know you did wrong, and poorly assessed the situation, go and contact her, and let her know.
If she doesn't resopect you for being a Man, then she's not worth it anyway.

Go and be a man.
Don't get her the gift though.
Make sure you give her the gift of your sincereity, and the honor you have inside.
If she loves you, she will appreciate YOU more than any gift.
You know what to do.

In the future, LEARN not to REACT.
Learn to keep your emotions in check.

 

[Interceptor]

where I felt she disrepected me but she really didn't

You did everything perfect, she's begging for your attention. (Depends how long this been going on...) Anyways your not in the wrong here, just tell her that you were really busy with life, and stuff, and just didn't have the time to talk to her.

WTF?????!

Dude..........

Where's krazyboy? someone tell him he's got to see this.





PS Note to self, do not go in the main forum anymore, Interceptor. Agreed?

(sigh) Agreed.

 

[KontrollerX]

Good post interceptor.

 

[Stéphane]

WTF?????!

Dude..........

Where's krazyboy? someone tell him he's got to see this.





PS Note to self, do not go in the main forum anymore, Interceptor. Agreed?

(sigh) Agreed.

So your saying that he should apologise, and give her all the power? That he should be begging to get her back? Sorry, It's easier if the pvssy comes begging to you, instead of having you beg for pvssy. She's already begging for his attention, she keeps calling him.

Why the f*** should he apologise, and give her all the power?

 

[Stéphane]

this is a prime example of what happens when you let all the sh1t you read on this site get to your head. if you were wrong and you apologize, that's not giving away any power. that's just being a decent human being.

Well, been a decent human being won't get you the girl. There tons of decent human beings we call them "nice guys", "doormats", "AFCs". There all decent human beings but do they get laid? Hell no.

You can try apologising, but people just don't take appologies good, just like compliments. She will either forgive him or she won't, he doesn't need to appologise for it.

Another option he could do is to be brutally honest with her. Just tell her the truth, and that it was a big misunderstanding, but donot appologize. You did absolutely nothing wrong, it was a misunderstanding at the most.

 

[MooseGod]

Dude, just tell her the truth. Who cares if some guy on an online forum says it makes you an "AFC?"

You've got to be honest in any healthy relationship...if you ****ed up, then it's alright to apologize.