Okay I'm going to tell ya right off the bat this is probably going to be a little lengthy but I really need some insight on this one boys so help me out!
I've known this girl, K, for well over a year now. We've been friendly for that amount of time and just about 3 months ago started hooking up sporatically. She is a HB 9 but she also has one of the coolest personalities I've ever seen in a girl.
On average I would say we hook up about once every other week. Maybe a little more than that. Now I'm not the easiest guy to open up to girls but I feel like its about time that I tell her how I feel. I definately like this girl a lot and rather than trying to just wait until she says something to me I feel like I should just suck it up and say something.
One of the reasons I want to do this is also because she hooks up with this other guy sometimes also. I want it to be known to her that I want it to just be me and her and no other interferences.
Now this past weekend we made it back to my room and did our thing and afterwards she was saying how I was the sweetest guy she's ever met and blah blah blah...to make a long story short I don't think I reacted how I should have (or how she wanted me to). I should've said how I feel no? I said something along the lines of how I always have fun hanging out with her and that was about it.
Now that goes back to my point before, I don't open up easily. So about 2 days after that night, my friends and I take a road trip while my roomate's GF and her friends (K included) slept in our house. Now by the time I get back (like 8 AM) I'm whiped out and so I'm just sitting on the couch next to her and like passing out (they were up for some reason). She gave me no cuddle action and very minimal touching. When they were leaving she just said good bye to everyoen and didn't specifically come to me (mean anything or over analyzing?). Later in the day they all came BACK because 1 of them forgot something and they were all going out for dinner so they figured they would stop by. So she waves and says hi, and while they were leaving she just said bye to everyoen again. Nothing directed towards me specifically.. Once again...mean something? or over analyzing?
I mean to just go from a night that we had (it was a great night, finally got her to touch my c*ck) with her saying how sweet I am etc etc to be followed up by that just sounds a little weird...
As I said before it is very hard for me to open up to someone and I really want to tell her how I feel when I see her this weekend. --> I figure that if she comes back to my place 1 night I'm just going to tell her. - But since I've been thinking of that morning I've been doubting doing it more and more.
What do you guys think should I do this or what? And if not what should/could I do?
I've known this girl, K, for well over a year now. We've been friendly for that amount of time and just about 3 months ago started hooking up sporatically. She is a HB 9 but she also has one of the coolest personalities I've ever seen in a girl.
On average I would say we hook up about once every other week. Maybe a little more than that. Now I'm not the easiest guy to open up to girls but I feel like its about time that I tell her how I feel. I definately like this girl a lot and rather than trying to just wait until she says something to me I feel like I should just suck it up and say something.
One of the reasons I want to do this is also because she hooks up with this other guy sometimes also. I want it to be known to her that I want it to just be me and her and no other interferences.
Now this past weekend we made it back to my room and did our thing and afterwards she was saying how I was the sweetest guy she's ever met and blah blah blah...to make a long story short I don't think I reacted how I should have (or how she wanted me to). I should've said how I feel no? I said something along the lines of how I always have fun hanging out with her and that was about it.
Now that goes back to my point before, I don't open up easily. So about 2 days after that night, my friends and I take a road trip while my roomate's GF and her friends (K included) slept in our house. Now by the time I get back (like 8 AM) I'm whiped out and so I'm just sitting on the couch next to her and like passing out (they were up for some reason). She gave me no cuddle action and very minimal touching. When they were leaving she just said good bye to everyoen and didn't specifically come to me (mean anything or over analyzing?). Later in the day they all came BACK because 1 of them forgot something and they were all going out for dinner so they figured they would stop by. So she waves and says hi, and while they were leaving she just said bye to everyoen again. Nothing directed towards me specifically.. Once again...mean something? or over analyzing?
I mean to just go from a night that we had (it was a great night, finally got her to touch my c*ck) with her saying how sweet I am etc etc to be followed up by that just sounds a little weird...
As I said before it is very hard for me to open up to someone and I really want to tell her how I feel when I see her this weekend. --> I figure that if she comes back to my place 1 night I'm just going to tell her. - But since I've been thinking of that morning I've been doubting doing it more and more.
What do you guys think should I do this or what? And if not what should/could I do?
