"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help a bro with this. Urgent see her 2nite

TheGambino

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Made a thread about her earlier. We fvcked, she goes to meetings with me for herbalife. Anyway she told me last week she already sees someone so i shouldnt expect "more" from dinner with her. (Asked her out) she loved the s3x tho she told me. She told me it isnt fair to fvck 2 guys. I feel bad about that she says.

Anyway she texts me now for riding together tonight to the meeting i already agreed. She uploads a snapchat now on her story with some dude having fun and drinks. I was planning on asking her in to fvck tonight but now I see this.

How would you guys play it ?

Aloof, cool, tease? Go for the Kiss and ignore the fact shes dating. Shes not exclusive yet.

I would like to fvck her again that's all
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jetleg

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you want to f*ck her, but she is f*cking with you mate.

She tells you she feels bad about being with 2 guys, yet she suggests hanging out together, which means she is either a slut or she is planning on having you as her best g@y friend.

you think about her too much, time to let her go, she will never be exclusive with you, forget it, your goal is to f*ck this b1tch, nothing more.

I would cancle the meeting today, going to to herballife with her is g@y and will turn you into her b1tch.

If she doesnt text you afterwards the game is over, if she does, make plans for a drink/cooking at your place, no g@y stuff.
 

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you want to f*ck her, but she is f*cking with you mate.

She tells you she feels bad about being with 2 guys, yet she suggests hanging out together, which means she is either a slut or she is planning on having you as her best g@y friend.

you think about her too much, time to let her go, she will never be exclusive with you, forget it.

I would cancle the meeting today, going to to herballife with her is g@y and will turn you into her b1tch.

If she doesnt text you afterwards the game is over, if she does, make plans for a drink/cooking at your place, no g@y stuff.

Dude im going there anyway
 

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Any chance of you hitting this on the regular will determine on whether or not you can still stay in touch with her AND keep your distance. Just act like its no big deal, have other options and by all means hang out with a hot chick and make sure that sh!t goes on snapchat.

Get her hamster spinning as to why YOU backed off and dont seem interested in it. She will come back if you do it properly.

When she says "its not fair...blah blah blah" just tell her that you agree and you have other things in the works anyway. Treat her for what she is, a pump and dump when you can get away with it.
 

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Then dont go with her. try to avoid meeting her there. you need to keep your self distanced from her so that she will wonder what the f*ck happend.

the moment a girl tells you she has someone but keeps texting you about hanging together she is putting you as option B (at the very best) or is trying to frienzone you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Go to the meeting. Have fun and put her on the backburner. Let her come to you and escalate if she does.

Fvck the outcome, better yet if any other woman is DTF that night take her home instead.

This woman is occupying more headspace than necessary. For your own game sake, I suggest you go out and learn how to handle yourself in such situations. Always do for the next girl, because there is always another one waiting for you.
 

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dude you are already too caught up in this emotionally

you should NOT be caring this much...


id pick her up an have her suk my D on the way to the meeting
 

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text her this a few hours before meeting: Hey "x", I won't be able to car pool tonight. I'm swamped at work and I'll be late to the meeting. See you there". Show up 5-10 mins late and ignore her. If she asks, just be mysterious. Work ran late, wanted to finish a project, hit the gym, whatever
 

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All this for some chick you banged once? Jesus fvcking Christ dude...your lack of options is abundantly clear to other posters, I can't even imagine how much more clear it must be to her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Made a thread about her earlier. We fvcked, she goes to meetings with me for herbalife. Anyway she told me last week she already sees someone so i shouldnt expect "more" from dinner with her. (Asked her out) she loved the s3x tho she told me. She told me it isnt fair to fvck 2 guys. I feel bad about that she says.

Anyway she texts me now for riding together tonight to the meeting i already agreed. She uploads a snapchat now on her story with some dude having fun and drinks. I was planning on asking her in to fvck tonight but now I see this.

How would you guys play it ?

Aloof, cool, tease? Go for the Kiss and ignore the fact shes dating. Shes not exclusive yet.

I would like to fvck her again that's all
You already lost. You agreed to cheauffer her to the meeting. Unless you ****ing her in your backseat before hand, you should have never agreed to this. If a woman doesn't agree to undivided, alone time to you, she's not interested. She uses the presence of others to **** block you.

The best thing you can do is simply ghost until she hits you up. Invite her over to your place to make dinner, walk your dog, or whatever excuse you can come up with to get her over. If she doesn't agree to come over, or suggests meeting out, withdraw the offer and ghost again. Repeat this until she submits or stops hitting you up. From here on out must make your attention scarce. This is your only chance. She'll come sniffing around when her whacko dude screws up.
 
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