"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The situation is with a girl at work that has high interest in me from multiple IOI's which I could list if wish for informative purposes. Anyways, she's 16 and im 19... so :confused: I dont think I would get in too much trouble and I work with her.. But she's COULD be my bonnie cause Im already clyde.

Not to be confused with oneitisis I have other prospects but damn she just stands out from the rest. As do I :rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Isn't your age difference illegal???
 
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I think 17 is legal in NC.. so... Fudge it Im no stranger to the cops. 3 years... not that big.. of a deal. I knew a 30 year old man tapping some 17/18 year old. So I feel justified
 
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Have fun...
 
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Yeah well..yeah..

Hit the clubs or something dude. Don't be hunting around for a school kid.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KillaCam said:
Yeah well..yeah..

Hit the clubs or something dude. Don't be hunting around for a school kid.
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Yeah seriously, if its against the law you shouldn't do it, if you really like her that much wait till she's the legal age.
 
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30 year olds getting with 18 year olds and 19 year olds getting with 16 year olds (sophmore and juniors in highschool) is a big difference. It isn't statutory rape for the 30 year old guy, heh.
 
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Wee said:
30 year olds getting with 18 year olds and 19 year olds getting with 16 year olds (sophmore and juniors in highschool) is a big difference. It isn't statutory rape for the 30 year old guy, heh.
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Are you saying you want to lower the legal age?!!
 
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Um, girls start menstruating in their preteens for a reason...so don't start crying "Ethics!" and "Morals!" on us now.

You think s'hit's different because we've got cell phones and the Internet? C'mon now. We're barely out of the f'ucking jungle here, folks. We're nothing but neanderthals with baseball caps and automatic weapons. Society says we have to wear clothes or we'll go to jail? Fine. But admit that it goes against our carnal instinct. Same thing goes with chicks. You think 40-old cavemen cave a flying f'uck how old the girl was that they were about to club and drag back to their cave? THAT s'hit is about as natural as you can get. We've got all kinds of f'ucked up laws, and most of them have little or nothing to do with what humans are designed to do.
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Dude, physical development and mental development are so incredibly different things. Just because a chick can bleed doesn't mean she's ready to have some old guy poking and prodding at her. It's a sick picture yeah.

Sure, back in roman times, old guys used to have their way with the young ones all the time. These days, it's not acceptable for a reason.
 
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I'll leave the kiddy-fiddling to you buddy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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