"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hello to the female lurkers and infiltrators.

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How are you girls doing?

Hello? Hello?

I know you're there!

Oh, you don't want to respond on the forum and out yourselves.

Thats cool.

How about sending me a private message. I promise I'll keep it secret.

I'd love to hear what you think about all this.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, would you keep your sarging in PM?!!! :woo:
 
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There's lots of women that browse and occasionally post at this site... most of the guys flame the women.

I personally respect a woman's opinion, because most of the time they just echo the information already here... it just shows that at the very least our information is tight... how well the people actually follow through... well, I think it's drastically less.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So pimp its scary said:
There's lots of women that browse and occasionally post at this site... most of the guys flame the women.

Is that so? Are these the guys who go on about all the chicks they've ****ed or the ones who are desperate for some adice about women?

True DJs obviously...

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^^ Some of the women here have posts in the DJ Bible, like Wyldfire. She had more posts than anybody (really), but people flamed her out. I guess they didn't like her because she was an older single mom, and so naturally a lot of her advice was from her point of view, focused on how a guy would land someome like her, which we don't really care to.
 
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yeah bro, there are plenty of women her, like "girl on a boy forum", its very subtle.
 
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:wave: Hello JayJay!

I'm on here and have been for a while. There were more, I think PenKitten and I are the only ones who post with much frequency now. We used to have more, Wyldfire is gone I think...so is Sexy Malibu (What ever happened to her anyway???)

I've had my share of flames when my opinion differed from the status quo. For the most part, I just try to help demystify the tangled ribbons of the female mind for the rest of the guys.

XOXOXO,
WaterTiger:flowers:
 
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Hey there WaterTiger.

Wow! I've just been going through some of your posts. Nice stuff Sister!

Its a shame that girls get flamed so hard here. You give some pretty awesome advise.

So what's the attraction in coming here?

You've obviously read a bit of the bible. Who do reckon is the ****?

JJ

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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