"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hello to the female lurkers and infiltrators.

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How are you girls doing?

Hello? Hello?

I know you're there!

Oh, you don't want to respond on the forum and out yourselves.

Thats cool.

How about sending me a private message. I promise I'll keep it secret.

I'd love to hear what you think about all this.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude, would you keep your sarging in PM?!!! :woo:
 
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There's lots of women that browse and occasionally post at this site... most of the guys flame the women.

I personally respect a woman's opinion, because most of the time they just echo the information already here... it just shows that at the very least our information is tight... how well the people actually follow through... well, I think it's drastically less.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So pimp its scary said:
There's lots of women that browse and occasionally post at this site... most of the guys flame the women.

Is that so? Are these the guys who go on about all the chicks they've ****ed or the ones who are desperate for some adice about women?

True DJs obviously...

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^^ Some of the women here have posts in the DJ Bible, like Wyldfire. She had more posts than anybody (really), but people flamed her out. I guess they didn't like her because she was an older single mom, and so naturally a lot of her advice was from her point of view, focused on how a guy would land someome like her, which we don't really care to.
 
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yeah bro, there are plenty of women her, like "girl on a boy forum", its very subtle.
 
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:wave: Hello JayJay!

I'm on here and have been for a while. There were more, I think PenKitten and I are the only ones who post with much frequency now. We used to have more, Wyldfire is gone I think...so is Sexy Malibu (What ever happened to her anyway???)

I've had my share of flames when my opinion differed from the status quo. For the most part, I just try to help demystify the tangled ribbons of the female mind for the rest of the guys.

XOXOXO,
WaterTiger:flowers:
 
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Hey there WaterTiger.

Wow! I've just been going through some of your posts. Nice stuff Sister!

Its a shame that girls get flamed so hard here. You give some pretty awesome advise.

So what's the attraction in coming here?

You've obviously read a bit of the bible. Who do reckon is the ****?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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