"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hello. New RAFC here...

T-101

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I didnt find an "introduce yourself" thread and the links in the Adobe Acrobat Bootcamp are dead so I thought Id throw it here. I was refered here by a friend. I started the bootcamp about an hour ago and Im looking forward to finishing it. Im not sure Ill be able to do it 100% though because Im married. That doesnt mean I dont need better social/marketing skills. Ill do everything but follow up on phone numbers and go through with the dates. I think I can handle getting some numbers and bettering my 1 on 1 conversation skills though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Welcome aboard, matey! :D

Im kinda curious: since it was your friend who pointed you here, what was your initial reaction? Did you take it seriously from the start?

I tried to point a totally AFC friend to this site, but he never mentioned it again, didnt even look prolly.
 

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We spend a lot of time talking about women and society in general. We share a lot of the same opinions regarding the subject. One day he told me about all the things he has learned here. It reminded me of when the guy from Terminator 2 was describing the chip they found. "It was scary stuff, radically advanced. It gave us ideas, It took us in new directions... things we would never have thought of." lol. So I figured Id take a look at the site. I like what Ive read of the bootcamp so here I am. The newest member.
 

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Wait. How can you be AFC and married bro? Shouldnt you be here to help us unmarried guys? :D
 

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Im very quiet and calm around women. Women think its "mysterious" and they read it as confidence. Im not a bad looking guy either. Thats on the outside...on the inside Im all tension. I end up being an emotional tampon for too many women and my social skills are beyond pathetic. Go a week without speaking to another person and see how many friends you make. Im married and my wife is a 10 but I need help as much as anybody cuz without the confidence on the inside, youll never be happy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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