"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hello forum! Hello everybody!
- Thread starter dinhdai88
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
You're also a bot program created by a spammer, who I hope dies a slow and painful deathdinhdai88 said:
http://forum.travlang.com/showthread.php?tid=246724&pid=247232#pid247232
http://www.selecthorsesale.com/forum/introductions-f9/hello-forum-hello-everybody-t170.html
http://www.gixxer.com/forums/showthread.php?p=5102252
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
That post did not have the typical signature link to generic viagra or some other junk they are usually selling, but with google I found the exact same post on several unrelated forums.The_Priest said:
I'm not a computer guy, so bear with my low-tech explanation, but web forums almost all use vb bulletin software: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/VBulletin - so spammers write bot programs that pretend to be real people. They get better all the time, but you can still tell that they're bots by the generic nature of the wording. The H&F forum on sosuave is bot paradise. Recently, one of them quoted my post word-for-word back to me. Sometimes they just regurgitate random words from the discussion.
Since this one does not have a spam link directly in the post, I'm guessing that it's a test to see if it gets deleted, and then the program will return later to post the spam link. The link I posted to the horse forum is a thread that is pages and pages of nothing but bot spam.