"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
You're also a bot program created by a spammer, who I hope dies a slow and painful deathdinhdai88 said:
http://forum.travlang.com/showthread.php?tid=246724&pid=247232#pid247232
http://www.selecthorsesale.com/forum/introductions-f9/hello-forum-hello-everybody-t170.html
http://www.gixxer.com/forums/showthread.php?p=5102252
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
That post did not have the typical signature link to generic viagra or some other junk they are usually selling, but with google I found the exact same post on several unrelated forums.The_Priest said:
I'm not a computer guy, so bear with my low-tech explanation, but web forums almost all use vb bulletin software: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/VBulletin - so spammers write bot programs that pretend to be real people. They get better all the time, but you can still tell that they're bots by the generic nature of the wording. The H&F forum on sosuave is bot paradise. Recently, one of them quoted my post word-for-word back to me. Sometimes they just regurgitate random words from the discussion.
Since this one does not have a spam link directly in the post, I'm guessing that it's a test to see if it gets deleted, and then the program will return later to post the spam link. The link I posted to the horse forum is a thread that is pages and pages of nothing but bot spam.