"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Prettyboi

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hey guys
i haven't been on here in a while but i just found a site
easyheight.com
can anyone tell me what they think of their methods for growing taller
im currently 15 (turning 16 in a month) and im 5'8" looking to gain a couple of inches
do you think this'll help
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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onyx

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dude your 15, you'll grow more within the next 5 years or so, theres no rush
 

Crazy Asian

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eat lots
sleep 8 hours
sleep is the most important thing.
 

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Height is genetic, you have what you have. I was smaller than you at your age, now I'm 6'1. Even if you don't grow much more, don't worry, it's not a particularly big (no pun intended!) deal.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I actually heard somewhere that if you get 9-10 hrs of sleep every night in complete darkness and drink 24 oz of milk a day then you'll grow. i've never tried it or anything, (im 6'3") but i do know that i drank a lot of milk when i was younger.
 

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I drank tons of milk when I was younger and got good sleep, and I'm only 5'8. It's genetic.
 

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i used to drink lots of milk when i was younger, but now i barely drink a glass a week
i guess i should just try getting more sleep
if i dont grow ill just deal with it
thanx anyways
 

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I used to swim alot when I was younger, probably about 6 or so hours a week. I heard that helps you to grow by reducing compression on the spine, plus all the stretching involved. All Im saying is it could have helped, I also drank tonnes of milk (im talking 2 litres a day) and had 4-5 massive meals a day.

Im 6'2" which isnt particularily tall, but the next tallest in my extended family is my dad, who is 5'9".
 

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avoid smoking drinking or any drugs...lol tons of my friends are short because of them
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If it's in the genes how come I'm only 5'6 but my dad is 5'10, one of my brothers is 5'9 another is almost as tall as I am but he's 13...

I think something else got fucked up. BTW I never smoked or done any drugs. I also drank a lot of milk.
 

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About 5'4, which is the average height for females. If the mothers height mattered in determining a sons height then there would be no men above 5'8. BTW her dad is like 6'2.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Height has very little to do with "good" or "bad" genetics. Plenty of asians have fantastic genetics, and most of them are not particularly tall.

Most bodybuilders are under 6'0... just something to think about.
 

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Maxtro said:
About 5'4, which is the average height for females. If the mothers height mattered in determining a sons height then there would be no men above 5'8. BTW her dad is like 6'2.
Mother's height does matter for sons. I have an aunt. She's 4'11''. Her son is 19 and 5'1''. His dad is average height.
 

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"most azns have fantastic genes yet not tall"

african americans have fantastic genes yet they succeed in physical activities better than educational material.

genes have a lot to do with your height the same way the length of your penis has to with your genes.
 

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I am 18 and 6'7, everyone on both sides of the family is tall, 4 cousins over 7 foot and my brother is on his way (only 17 atm as well) ... It is very hard in australia because there are no ****ing decent clothes anywhere over here that fit properly :mad: ...
 

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Charm&Style said:
african americans have fantastic genes yet they succeed in physical activities better than educational material.
Haha, where is this wild statement coming from? Do you have anything to back that up or is it just a personal opinion?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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