"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Height Qualification?

Nutz

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Something just clicked for me. I was looking over some of my old threads and it got me thinking about past sets. The girls that are into me show me their real height. Not sure why or what that signifies, but it's essentially a truism for me. They actually take off a shoe to show they're shorter, or stand on the side of their foot for a moment. The only thing I can make out of this is that it's a huge qualification on their part they're they're short enough to date me or something since I'm fairly short as well. I really need to watch for this from now on. I know tall women don't usually wear heals because they already tower over most guys so they want to minimize that due to being self conscious or something. Same as tall women often hunching/slouching over to "compensate" for their height. When they do this I guess just take it as a good sign they want to get with you and it's their way of showing their self-consciousness about their height in relation to me or something. And it actually doesn't matter their height. I've had chicks who were 4'11" do this just as the ones who are 6'+.

From now on as soon as they do this I'm qualifying them with a hug and kiss on the cheek.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hughman

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Interesting thought.

I'll agree with that - every girl I know above 5' 7" will wear nothing above 1' kitten pumps. The shorter they get, the bigger the heels, though when in the household of their bfs, they'll play up their short-stature.

EDIT: This is in day-to-day dealings. they'll all wear 3-7 inch heels on a night out.
 
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jimbobham

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Hey I am 5'8" and have never had a girl take off her shoes to show me her real height. You are kidding right? I know a lot of tall women who wear high heels, its hot. But I prefer a woman who has confidence in herself personally that height is not an issue. Bimbo's can take a back seat.
 
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