"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Height Qualification?

Nutz

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Something just clicked for me. I was looking over some of my old threads and it got me thinking about past sets. The girls that are into me show me their real height. Not sure why or what that signifies, but it's essentially a truism for me. They actually take off a shoe to show they're shorter, or stand on the side of their foot for a moment. The only thing I can make out of this is that it's a huge qualification on their part they're they're short enough to date me or something since I'm fairly short as well. I really need to watch for this from now on. I know tall women don't usually wear heals because they already tower over most guys so they want to minimize that due to being self conscious or something. Same as tall women often hunching/slouching over to "compensate" for their height. When they do this I guess just take it as a good sign they want to get with you and it's their way of showing their self-consciousness about their height in relation to me or something. And it actually doesn't matter their height. I've had chicks who were 4'11" do this just as the ones who are 6'+.

From now on as soon as they do this I'm qualifying them with a hug and kiss on the cheek.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hughman

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Interesting thought.

I'll agree with that - every girl I know above 5' 7" will wear nothing above 1' kitten pumps. The shorter they get, the bigger the heels, though when in the household of their bfs, they'll play up their short-stature.

EDIT: This is in day-to-day dealings. they'll all wear 3-7 inch heels on a night out.
 
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jimbobham

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Hey I am 5'8" and have never had a girl take off her shoes to show me her real height. You are kidding right? I know a lot of tall women who wear high heels, its hot. But I prefer a woman who has confidence in herself personally that height is not an issue. Bimbo's can take a back seat.
 
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