"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Height Qualification?

Nutz

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Something just clicked for me. I was looking over some of my old threads and it got me thinking about past sets. The girls that are into me show me their real height. Not sure why or what that signifies, but it's essentially a truism for me. They actually take off a shoe to show they're shorter, or stand on the side of their foot for a moment. The only thing I can make out of this is that it's a huge qualification on their part they're they're short enough to date me or something since I'm fairly short as well. I really need to watch for this from now on. I know tall women don't usually wear heals because they already tower over most guys so they want to minimize that due to being self conscious or something. Same as tall women often hunching/slouching over to "compensate" for their height. When they do this I guess just take it as a good sign they want to get with you and it's their way of showing their self-consciousness about their height in relation to me or something. And it actually doesn't matter their height. I've had chicks who were 4'11" do this just as the ones who are 6'+.

From now on as soon as they do this I'm qualifying them with a hug and kiss on the cheek.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hughman

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Interesting thought.

I'll agree with that - every girl I know above 5' 7" will wear nothing above 1' kitten pumps. The shorter they get, the bigger the heels, though when in the household of their bfs, they'll play up their short-stature.

EDIT: This is in day-to-day dealings. they'll all wear 3-7 inch heels on a night out.
 
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jimbobham

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Hey I am 5'8" and have never had a girl take off her shoes to show me her real height. You are kidding right? I know a lot of tall women who wear high heels, its hot. But I prefer a woman who has confidence in herself personally that height is not an issue. Bimbo's can take a back seat.
 
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