Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ARE YOU CRAZY??? All this BS that we talk about being alpha, being the prize, be the jerk -- who naturally has these attributes??? Attractive men who have lived the life of an attractive person their entire lives. Sure some idiot is going to list some unattractive guys that get girls, but we are dealing with society as a whole (not ur lil friends.) The better you look the more likely you are to have an attractive mate.. No one can logically deny that. Be realistic!!! I'm not saying that you HAVE to look good, but it fking helps. Can lil short fat ugly bob REALLY feel like the prize-- can he really???I-am-someone said:
Good job on resurrecting a completly useless thread.Tha Realnezz said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
good thing this a$$hole was banned.
sounds like someone's feeling ugly so he had to bump a thread about height to make him feel better.Tha Realnezz said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
) are more likely to settle for less better attractive girls in general, which may include overweight girls, simply because they will have less choice, cos some women refuse to date guys under a certain height.I dunno man. I'm 6"2' and speak from REAL LIFE experience, not queationaires and surveys. Yea, put 2 guys next to each other, identical in every way but one 5 and one 6 foot....obviously the taller one, but theres so much more to physical attractiveness, not to mention game. There's a forum that I sometimes visit that asks the same question, however this forum is populated by male and female students with no knowledge of PU and no axe to grind.azanon said:
You're missing the point of the discussion. We're just talking about height alone, measured against itself. Of course there are a ton of other variables that will matter in the overall picture. That goes without saying, IMO, but you can feel free to say that since you just did.L777 said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Tha Realnezz said:
There comes a point of diminishing returns. A decent musculature is usually good but once you start becoming a monster it's probably a turnoff. I get nothing but compliments on my shoulders and back as i get bigger. Of course i have no desire to become "as big as possible" though. I think a lot of women are turned off by muscular guys too because they feel inferior and would have to work extra hard on their own bodies to keep the guy.Silverback82 said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.