"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheMinistered

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lol, this is something great that happend to me, well here is the scenario:

I'm at a basketball game with some friends, a sub-state championship game to be exact, anywho one of these girls in our group i've been hitting on and shooting c&f comments at... so she grabs my money as we are both standing in line... lol so we play around and I sorta chase her around to get it and we end up in this corner... so i'm like "I got you now, no where left to hide! muahahhaa!" and so I like wrap my arms around her and she sort of bends over to keep the money away from me... then i'm like, "muahahhaha, give it to me!"

Anyone see the humor? She is bent over, I have my arms wrapped around her screaming muhahha GIVE IT TO ME! lol

we cracked up about it for a good while ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LikRetsam

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What'ya do with her?

EDIT: I mean, you got the hint right?
 

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She is a good friend, she is hot-- but I would probably never consider putting the good ol' wood to her... so die AFK PROTECTOR or whatever your name is

btw-- i like to practice my game on her and she knows it :)
 

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Lol man that is great work I admire your own style keep it up!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by TheMinistered
so die AFK PROTECTOR or whatever your name is
How old are you?? You seem like one of those kids that has a 8 yr olds mind in an 15 yr olds body. Theres kids like you in one of my classes and they drive me insane.
 

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You seem like one of those under-classmen that try to act all bad and suck up to the seniors... how about you die too?
 

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Originally posted by TheMinistered
You seem like one of those under-classmen that try to act all bad and suck up to the seniors... how about you die too?
Ok...im not an underclassman but ok...
 

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You're dumb.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lol jestor cant you think up of your own post? Has society got such a firm grip on you that you can not think up new ideas? This proganda bull**** that was meant to be the 'right' way for the future of love and happiness. Has so society made you so angry and sad that your thoughts have been clouded by this POWERFUL emotion? Its seems to me you are insecure about yourself. The first step is that it is not your fault that you are unhappy, and you gotta relise that the environment that we grow up in determines our actions of the future. Everyone is not perfect, therefore you have no right to judge. Get rid of this insecurity, EMBRACE ANIMALISTIC INSTINCTS and EMOTION and you will find your way again. Face your problem and learn a unique way for yourself to fix it. Again it is not your fault that you turned out to be this close minded person which I can sense you being very uptight with your choice of words. To prove your INTELIGENCE.
 

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Originally posted by Smoothflow
Lol jestor cant you think up of your own post? Has society got such a firm grip on you that you can not think up new ideas? This proganda bull**** that was meant to be the 'right' way for the future of love and happiness. Has so society made you so angry and sad that your thoughts have been clouded by this POWERFUL emotion? Its seems to me you are insecure about yourself. The first step is that it is not your fault that you are unhappy, and you gotta relise that the environment that we grow up in determines our actions of the future. Everyone is not perfect, therefore you have no right to judge. Get rid of this insecurity, EMBRACE ANIMALISTIC INSTINCTS and EMOTION and you will find your way again. Face your problem and learn a unique way for yourself to fix it. Again it is not your fault that you turned out to be this close minded person which I can sense you being very uptight with your choice of words. To prove your INTELIGENCE.
Kinda like what you just attempted to do?
 

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Originally posted by Smoothflow
Lol jestor cant you think up of your own post? Has society got such a firm grip on you that you can not think up new ideas? This proganda bull**** that was meant to be the 'right' way for the future of love and happiness. Has so society made you so angry and sad that your thoughts have been clouded by this POWERFUL emotion? Its seems to me you are insecure about yourself. The first step is that it is not your fault that you are unhappy, and you gotta relise that the environment that we grow up in determines our actions of the future. Everyone is not perfect, therefore you have no right to judge. Get rid of this insecurity, EMBRACE ANIMALISTIC INSTINCTS and EMOTION and you will find your way again. Face your problem and learn a unique way for yourself to fix it. Again it is not your fault that you turned out to be this close minded person which I can sense you being very uptight with your choice of words. To prove your INTELIGENCE.
Errr...yeah, way to overreact there buddy.
 

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Originally posted by Smoothflow
Lol jestor cant you think up of your own post? Has society got such a firm grip on you that you can not think up new ideas? This proganda bull**** that was meant to be the 'right' way for the future of love and happiness. Has so society made you so angry and sad that your thoughts have been clouded by this POWERFUL emotion? Its seems to me you are insecure about yourself. The first step is that it is not your fault that you are unhappy, and you gotta relise that the environment that we grow up in determines our actions of the future. Everyone is not perfect, therefore you have no right to judge. Get rid of this insecurity, EMBRACE ANIMALISTIC INSTINCTS and EMOTION and you will find your way again. Face your problem and learn a unique way for yourself to fix it. Again it is not your fault that you turned out to be this close minded person which I can sense you being very uptight with your choice of words. To prove your INTELIGENCE.
2 words


get help
 

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sigh, you guys are pitiful! Please tell me, who has time to sit on their computer all day and wait for replies so that they can get the last word in OVER THE INTERNET? I mean really, get a life...

Personally, I respect SmoothFlow for his statements and I think you guys should too... I mean really who are you guys to tell me this **** you are saying? You don't know me and I doubt AFK PROTECTOR has any clue what he is talking about... so please, you guys can sit at home staring at your computer screen checking every nanosecond to see if we replied to your homosexual flaming posts, while me and SmoothFlow kick back, relax, act calm and get the *****....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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