Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Heh, something funny...

TheMinistered

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lol, this is something great that happend to me, well here is the scenario:

I'm at a basketball game with some friends, a sub-state championship game to be exact, anywho one of these girls in our group i've been hitting on and shooting c&f comments at... so she grabs my money as we are both standing in line... lol so we play around and I sorta chase her around to get it and we end up in this corner... so i'm like "I got you now, no where left to hide! muahahhaa!" and so I like wrap my arms around her and she sort of bends over to keep the money away from me... then i'm like, "muahahhaha, give it to me!"

Anyone see the humor? She is bent over, I have my arms wrapped around her screaming muhahha GIVE IT TO ME! lol

we cracked up about it for a good while ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LikRetsam

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What'ya do with her?

EDIT: I mean, you got the hint right?
 

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She is a good friend, she is hot-- but I would probably never consider putting the good ol' wood to her... so die AFK PROTECTOR or whatever your name is

btw-- i like to practice my game on her and she knows it :)
 

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Lol man that is great work I admire your own style keep it up!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by TheMinistered
so die AFK PROTECTOR or whatever your name is
How old are you?? You seem like one of those kids that has a 8 yr olds mind in an 15 yr olds body. Theres kids like you in one of my classes and they drive me insane.
 

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You seem like one of those under-classmen that try to act all bad and suck up to the seniors... how about you die too?
 

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Originally posted by TheMinistered
You seem like one of those under-classmen that try to act all bad and suck up to the seniors... how about you die too?
Ok...im not an underclassman but ok...
 

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You're dumb.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Lol jestor cant you think up of your own post? Has society got such a firm grip on you that you can not think up new ideas? This proganda bull**** that was meant to be the 'right' way for the future of love and happiness. Has so society made you so angry and sad that your thoughts have been clouded by this POWERFUL emotion? Its seems to me you are insecure about yourself. The first step is that it is not your fault that you are unhappy, and you gotta relise that the environment that we grow up in determines our actions of the future. Everyone is not perfect, therefore you have no right to judge. Get rid of this insecurity, EMBRACE ANIMALISTIC INSTINCTS and EMOTION and you will find your way again. Face your problem and learn a unique way for yourself to fix it. Again it is not your fault that you turned out to be this close minded person which I can sense you being very uptight with your choice of words. To prove your INTELIGENCE.
 

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Originally posted by Smoothflow
Lol jestor cant you think up of your own post? Has society got such a firm grip on you that you can not think up new ideas? This proganda bull**** that was meant to be the 'right' way for the future of love and happiness. Has so society made you so angry and sad that your thoughts have been clouded by this POWERFUL emotion? Its seems to me you are insecure about yourself. The first step is that it is not your fault that you are unhappy, and you gotta relise that the environment that we grow up in determines our actions of the future. Everyone is not perfect, therefore you have no right to judge. Get rid of this insecurity, EMBRACE ANIMALISTIC INSTINCTS and EMOTION and you will find your way again. Face your problem and learn a unique way for yourself to fix it. Again it is not your fault that you turned out to be this close minded person which I can sense you being very uptight with your choice of words. To prove your INTELIGENCE.
Kinda like what you just attempted to do?
 

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Originally posted by Smoothflow
Lol jestor cant you think up of your own post? Has society got such a firm grip on you that you can not think up new ideas? This proganda bull**** that was meant to be the 'right' way for the future of love and happiness. Has so society made you so angry and sad that your thoughts have been clouded by this POWERFUL emotion? Its seems to me you are insecure about yourself. The first step is that it is not your fault that you are unhappy, and you gotta relise that the environment that we grow up in determines our actions of the future. Everyone is not perfect, therefore you have no right to judge. Get rid of this insecurity, EMBRACE ANIMALISTIC INSTINCTS and EMOTION and you will find your way again. Face your problem and learn a unique way for yourself to fix it. Again it is not your fault that you turned out to be this close minded person which I can sense you being very uptight with your choice of words. To prove your INTELIGENCE.
Errr...yeah, way to overreact there buddy.
 

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Originally posted by Smoothflow
Lol jestor cant you think up of your own post? Has society got such a firm grip on you that you can not think up new ideas? This proganda bull**** that was meant to be the 'right' way for the future of love and happiness. Has so society made you so angry and sad that your thoughts have been clouded by this POWERFUL emotion? Its seems to me you are insecure about yourself. The first step is that it is not your fault that you are unhappy, and you gotta relise that the environment that we grow up in determines our actions of the future. Everyone is not perfect, therefore you have no right to judge. Get rid of this insecurity, EMBRACE ANIMALISTIC INSTINCTS and EMOTION and you will find your way again. Face your problem and learn a unique way for yourself to fix it. Again it is not your fault that you turned out to be this close minded person which I can sense you being very uptight with your choice of words. To prove your INTELIGENCE.
2 words


get help
 

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sigh, you guys are pitiful! Please tell me, who has time to sit on their computer all day and wait for replies so that they can get the last word in OVER THE INTERNET? I mean really, get a life...

Personally, I respect SmoothFlow for his statements and I think you guys should too... I mean really who are you guys to tell me this **** you are saying? You don't know me and I doubt AFK PROTECTOR has any clue what he is talking about... so please, you guys can sit at home staring at your computer screen checking every nanosecond to see if we replied to your homosexual flaming posts, while me and SmoothFlow kick back, relax, act calm and get the *****....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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