"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I recently put up my heavy punching bag again as Im rather shy on weights around here that don't kick and fight when Im picking them up.

I got a good warmup routine from Flyguy in my previous post, and Since my main concern is building my upper body and reducing my beer muscle I've been picking and prodding all the posts in here.

My question is if I pound on a heavy bag for 20 - 30 minutes a day and do a good warmup and make sure I do all the diet stuff properly is that sufficient?

Or do I need legitimate weights?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you only wanna get rid of the gut you'll do fine with just that. If you really wanna get HUGE muscles you'll need weights. Either way you should cut before you try to bulk. Good choice w/the punching bag BTW, be careful when you first start hitting it - you'd be surprised how easy it is to fvck up your wrists if you hit it the wrong way. Doing pushups on your knuckles will help strengthen your wrists.

Good luck!
 

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BTW, I advised this to burn calories since he can't run/bike/swim/etc. in the country.

Practicing martial arts over the years, I know that even just shadow boxing can build some muscle. The thing is you won't build huge muscles, but you will be very strong for your size. You get very compact but dense muscle. I used to practice ridge-hand strikes more with my left arm than my right, and after a month I noticed the bicep on my left arm was actually bigger than the other side (it used to be the other way around).

Oh and Kwah, don't forget intensity! Push yourself, and your hard work will pay off!
 

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And Boy the way that Foreman hit that HEAVY BAG! Oh Boy.......
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have no interest in becoming huge. Im quite happy with the size I'm at now. I have no real desire to get myself into XL size shirts.

Yeah I've noticed that the wrists can take a beating. Should I put some kind of padding under my hands when Im doing push ups with my fists? cause it gets rather hard on my knuckles and I dont know if thats healthy or not for them.

Also, someone know what the average soup bowl holds in ounces? I want to figure out this calorie thing but I dont know **** about weights and whatnot. Saying to me to eat an 8 oz piece of chicken means nothing :(
 

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You can use padding if you need to, just be sure to actually use your knuckles (not your fingers!) to support the weight while you perform the push-up. No, its not easy! Especially if you weigh a lot. But nothing worth doing is easy right? You also should wrap your knuckles when you hit the bag if you aren't already, you'll shred your skin quick otherwise.

No clue on the whole oz. thing, sorry. I haven't gotten too intense with diet yet myself. Recently I've gotten good cutting results by just decreasing my meal size by about 1/4 and eating the same things (making sure to include a larger ratio of lean protein in every meal), cutting out all junk food, fast food, soda, sweets, etc., and drinking a gallon of water everyday. I cut myself down from 18% bodyfat to 8% (and still cutting). You might need to be more strict though, I have a high metabolism still.
 

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Oh I have a fairly high metabolism. And I drink well over a gallon of water a day, probably in the neighbourhood of 3-4.

Cutting the amount of what I eat sounds a lot more realistic to me than doing some funky diet anyway. Good tips.
 

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As you learn to strike the bag correctly, you can lose all the padding. You should never be scraping against the bag, so you won't tear the skin, your knuckles will only get stronger.
 

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Oh I dont tear the skin, it just aint real comfortable pounding my bare knuckles on hard canvas.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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