"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I recently put up my heavy punching bag again as Im rather shy on weights around here that don't kick and fight when Im picking them up.

I got a good warmup routine from Flyguy in my previous post, and Since my main concern is building my upper body and reducing my beer muscle I've been picking and prodding all the posts in here.

My question is if I pound on a heavy bag for 20 - 30 minutes a day and do a good warmup and make sure I do all the diet stuff properly is that sufficient?

Or do I need legitimate weights?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you only wanna get rid of the gut you'll do fine with just that. If you really wanna get HUGE muscles you'll need weights. Either way you should cut before you try to bulk. Good choice w/the punching bag BTW, be careful when you first start hitting it - you'd be surprised how easy it is to fvck up your wrists if you hit it the wrong way. Doing pushups on your knuckles will help strengthen your wrists.

Good luck!
 

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BTW, I advised this to burn calories since he can't run/bike/swim/etc. in the country.

Practicing martial arts over the years, I know that even just shadow boxing can build some muscle. The thing is you won't build huge muscles, but you will be very strong for your size. You get very compact but dense muscle. I used to practice ridge-hand strikes more with my left arm than my right, and after a month I noticed the bicep on my left arm was actually bigger than the other side (it used to be the other way around).

Oh and Kwah, don't forget intensity! Push yourself, and your hard work will pay off!
 

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And Boy the way that Foreman hit that HEAVY BAG! Oh Boy.......
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have no interest in becoming huge. Im quite happy with the size I'm at now. I have no real desire to get myself into XL size shirts.

Yeah I've noticed that the wrists can take a beating. Should I put some kind of padding under my hands when Im doing push ups with my fists? cause it gets rather hard on my knuckles and I dont know if thats healthy or not for them.

Also, someone know what the average soup bowl holds in ounces? I want to figure out this calorie thing but I dont know **** about weights and whatnot. Saying to me to eat an 8 oz piece of chicken means nothing :(
 

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You can use padding if you need to, just be sure to actually use your knuckles (not your fingers!) to support the weight while you perform the push-up. No, its not easy! Especially if you weigh a lot. But nothing worth doing is easy right? You also should wrap your knuckles when you hit the bag if you aren't already, you'll shred your skin quick otherwise.

No clue on the whole oz. thing, sorry. I haven't gotten too intense with diet yet myself. Recently I've gotten good cutting results by just decreasing my meal size by about 1/4 and eating the same things (making sure to include a larger ratio of lean protein in every meal), cutting out all junk food, fast food, soda, sweets, etc., and drinking a gallon of water everyday. I cut myself down from 18% bodyfat to 8% (and still cutting). You might need to be more strict though, I have a high metabolism still.
 

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Oh I have a fairly high metabolism. And I drink well over a gallon of water a day, probably in the neighbourhood of 3-4.

Cutting the amount of what I eat sounds a lot more realistic to me than doing some funky diet anyway. Good tips.
 

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As you learn to strike the bag correctly, you can lose all the padding. You should never be scraping against the bag, so you won't tear the skin, your knuckles will only get stronger.
 

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Oh I dont tear the skin, it just aint real comfortable pounding my bare knuckles on hard canvas.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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