"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Heartbreaker Test

Lordlaxative

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Okay, I need some opinions on the correct response to this. Okay I was texting this girl, and she threw a test my way. Basically this is basically the way the "conversation" went:

"You need to stop being such a heartbreaker."
"What? Clarify."
"You are a heartbreaker, you make all the girls like you!"
"So because all the guys at work think your pretty, doesn't that make you a heartbreaker too?"
"Haha no cuz I don't mess with their heads."
"Are you saying I do?"
"Yes."
"Explain. What do you mean?"
"I don't know. But have a superb day today."
"You aren't gettin' off that easy, you are gonna have to explain to me later."
"Okay I'll explain it to you later."

And basically that is the jist of it. Did I respond right? How would you have reponded? Also how should I deal when she "explains" it to me? I know she'll probably say I flirt with all the girls at work, but how should I respond when I receive her "explanation?"

Thanks, in advance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She is giving you a compliment.

I'd just drop it or make some funny response and leave it at that. You'll get sucked into some drama if you get into some deep discussion about it.
 

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Her: You need to stop being such a heartbreaker
You: Why? did I break your heart? :D

like flexion said, just turn it into some c+f. Nice and simple.
 
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