Hearing the line "I never want to see you again"

[My Name is Nobody]

How many of you guys have heard this line and did she mean it? Did you never hear from her again?

I have heard this line 2 times in my life and the first time she really did mean it. The second time it has only been a few weeks, but I haven't heard a peep from her since she said it.

 

[Obsidian]

hmm, haven't heard it before. You must really be pissing people off. :crackup:

 

[My Name is Nobody]

hmm, haven't heard it before. You must really be pissing people off. :crackup:

LOL yeah, the first time she was a LTR and I really pissed her off acting AFC trying to get her back.

The second time was New Years Eve, the crazy woman threw me out after she started reminiscing about her ex husband.

 

[Obsidian]

it sounds like YOU should have told both of these girls that you never wanted to see them again, considering how they treated you. Don't be such a pushover.

Woman warmly reminiscing about her husband in front of me ---> NEXT

 

[My Name is Nobody]

it sounds like YOU should have told both of these girls that you never wanted to see them again, considering how they treated you. Don't be such a pushover.

Woman warmly reminiscing about her husband in front of me ---> NEXT

Yeah, the first one was years ago and most recent one I was drunk and haven't spoken to her since. I was just wondering if anyone else heard this line and what happened.

 

[War Against Betaism]

Well, I heard a "Don't talk to me ever again," line before after acting like a huge AFC. Never heard from her again, ugh I felt so stupid.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Well, I heard a "Don't talk to me ever again," line before after acting like a huge AFC. Never heard from her again, ugh I felt so stupid.

So far it's 3 for 3 in never talking to the girl again.

I guess they really mean it. I don't ever want to hear that line again. Granted, this recent time I got the " I don't ever want to see you again" via a text message it's probably all the same.

 

[reset]

Dude what's up with the multiple threads?

 

[MacAvoy]

I think he likes to wallow in the misery of his failures instead of experiencing spinning multiple plates.

 

[Nikos75]

When I was told by a very pissed-off GF that she never wanted to see me again I had an epiphany:
I told her: "OK. Next time we meet you'll be blindfolded..."
and that diffused the situation, because we have been playing lots of roles in the bedroom and she remembered that she liked surrendering to my whims

But don't take it personally when a girl tells you this. Most of the time it means that you managed to piss her off THAT MOMENT, and if she is smart she'll regret having said that and is going to reestablish contact.
What matters is what you say and do after being told this.

If you know you've been at fault, use some EMPATHY: "Babe, I understand that you're pissed off right now. Maybe because I did this, or maybe because I am not the man you thought me to be. If you want to stay pissed off and forget all the good moments we had together, it's up to you. For my part, I won't try to stop you from going away. However this does not mean that I will wait forever for you to cool down."

 

[DoctorLW]

Never. And I was huge arsehole in my AFC days, oh so long ago, and I probably deserved to hear it more than once.

 

[DonGorgon]

lol.....never

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Never happened to me but I still wouldn't sweat it. You have to consider the type of person who's saying it.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Dude what's up with the multiple threads?

What multiple threads? I only have 1 other thread going in MM and this is sort of a spinoff, but I wanted to hear from others who got this line before.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

When I was told by a very pissed-off GF that she never wanted to see me again I had an epiphany:
I told her: "OK. Next time we meet you'll be blindfolded..."
and that diffused the situation, because we have been playing lots of roles in the bedroom and she remembered that she liked surrendering to my whims

But don't take it personally when a girl tells you this. Most of the time it means that you managed to piss her off THAT MOMENT, and if she is smart she'll regret having said that and is going to reestablish contact.
What matters is what you say and do after being told this.

If you know you've been at fault, use some EMPATHY: "Babe, I understand that you're pissed off right now. Maybe because I did this, or maybe because I am not the man you thought me to be. If you want to stay pissed off and forget all the good moments we had together, it's up to you. For my part, I won't try to stop you from going away. However this does not mean that I will wait forever for you to cool down."

Not bad, but at this point it wouldn't make sense it's been 3 weeks.

 

[Jumpman23]

yes

happened to me... about a month ago I was being a real @$$, said i don't want to talk to you or see you again. i don't like that she said, to me it makes no sense, only thing i did was say a couple of things verbally, its not like i hit the girl. She was actually hit twice in a previous relationship, yet she still wants to talk to the guy, that was the only thing that was troubling to me.
i so want to talk to her again and get the last word and then hit it and quit it. have to figure out way to talk to her, i guess apologize, but that is chumpish

 

[SunnyD]

I have said it a lot, and have never meant it once. How about that???