"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heard this on the radio today...

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Local radio, what is that??? I have and only listen to XM and have so for about a year. I do not miss local radio garbage in any way, shape, form or fashion.

I listen to what I want, no commercials and plenty of my music and talk. Only drawback is that $13 a month to get it my way.
 

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ARrocket said:
lol you don't listen to much mainstream radio do you? Try listening to a rap station, then you'll hear something shocking.
No, no I don't listen to much mainstream radio. I do on the other hand listen to a lot of rap, so I'm not suprised when they bring some real talk out on rap, although most of it today is watered down as well. But this, on mainstream pop radio is the equivalent of Snoop Dog's Bytch's ain't ****.

Living well is the best revenge.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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