"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Heard this on the radio today...

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Local radio, what is that??? I have and only listen to XM and have so for about a year. I do not miss local radio garbage in any way, shape, form or fashion.

I listen to what I want, no commercials and plenty of my music and talk. Only drawback is that $13 a month to get it my way.
 

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ARrocket said:
lol you don't listen to much mainstream radio do you? Try listening to a rap station, then you'll hear something shocking.
No, no I don't listen to much mainstream radio. I do on the other hand listen to a lot of rap, so I'm not suprised when they bring some real talk out on rap, although most of it today is watered down as well. But this, on mainstream pop radio is the equivalent of Snoop Dog's Bytch's ain't ****.

Living well is the best revenge.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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