"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Healthy snacks for College/University studen

Hockey Playa

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Ive been meaning to make this post for a while... Ive found myself trapped in the 3 square meals a day mode.. i usually skip breakfast, because im always so tired, and just wkae up and go to class, i end up eating at 12--5-10. I know i should be eating 8 tiny meals, and im going to look into upping my protein intake. My question is for people who have already been through this dilema in their life, and if they have any tips for healthy snacks you could prepare/bring to class.

I have space for a drawer of food, but it usally goes bad fast.. and very limited refrigerator space... please list some healthy snacks i could buy or prepare
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eating 8 meals is HARD, make things easy for yourself! You don't get much more from eating that frequently!

I got stuck into trying to do everything perfect and all I got was no where.

First of all... EAT BREAKFAST. That and the post workout meal are essential and the 2 most important meals of the day.

Aim to eat 4 solid meals and 2 snacks.

Snacks can be protein bars, meal replacements, fruit, chicken sandwiches etc etc..... You can even make your own oat flapjacks with some protein mixed in them in bulk and eat them. Just ensure you have some good carbs and protein in each one!
 

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agree on the eating breakfast thing. it's imperative no matter what your goals are.

all I can say is - prepare in advance! sandwiches are your friend; accompany these with a protein drink if you're not eating enough meat. another option (as well as the bars and flapjacks mentioned) is drinking your meals: 2-3 scoops whey, 3-4 whole eggs, maybe some peanut butter in there. make up the shakes in advance and take them to school with you.

persevere, get into a routine of bulk preparing food and it'll get easier..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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For breakfast I eat oatmeal and a couple of hard-boiled eggs. The eggs can be microwaved to be cooked, and I microwave my oatmeal every morning. I eat the oatmeal and eggs in under 10 miniutes every day and that includes doing dishes.

I like having a scoop of peanut butter with raisins stuck all over it as a snack.

Also sunmaid has unsweetened dehydrated fruit that stays good for a few weeks in the bag if kept in a fridge.

I like to have a half of a peanut butter sanwich about a half hour before each workout which keeps me from getting really hungry while exercising.

If you like nuts, they're an easy, lost-lasting, healthy snack.

If you've got room in your fridge for a block of cheese, slicing off a chunk and scarfing it down can take the edge off your hunger.
 

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Almonds, Sunflower Seeds, Pumpkin Seeds, Protien Bars (the kind without a buttload of sugar) are all good choices.
 

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Hockey Playa said:
WBA when u say include 3-4 whole eggs in your shake, what do u mean by that? just cracking the eggs on the side, and pooring the whole thing in?
that would be it!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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