"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Healthy Gums

SmoothTalker

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Hey guys, I was just wondering if anybody would know anything about this?

My gums keep receding higher and higher. At this rate I'll have serious problems within a year or two and I don't know what to do about it.

I'm still young (early 20's), healthy with a good diet, brush and floss regularly, don't really get cavities, and get regular checkups at the dentist. I've also tried brushing more gently and with a soft toothbrush, but nothing seems to make a difference.

I'm pretty sure it's impossible to recover lost tissue, but any tips on what I can try to at least slow down the decline? I have no idea what's causing it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kabatura

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I think its time to go to the dentist, my gums were receding and they just told me to brush lighter, Ill see what they say in six months but hopefully thatll do it. You don't want your teeth to fall out!
 

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Yeah, that's my problem. I've been to the dentist plenty of times since the problem started and all they can really say is floss and brush gently.

I'm wondering if there's anything else that could be causing it, like diet, or anything else, because I don't really see how I can brush any gentler.
 

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I dont have much faith in dentists. Oral surgeions, orthodontist (the braces people), they are good to go, but it seems like regular teeth checking dentists dont really do much. I got these anti cavity coating once, I can't think of the name of them was right now, but the idea was that it would protect those teeth from getting cavities. Well the result was that I got a cavity in 3 out of four of the teeth with the coverings, complete scam. And the one time I actually flossed for six months, and was I proud! they told me I had some black stuff in between my teeth, like decay, I had never had black stuff in between my teeth before, so no flossing for me.

But Im sure there are some good dentists out there that actually know what they are doing and want to educate people.
 

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Well my actual dentist is pretty skilled, but he doesn't talk to me much unless I actually need something done, and I usually have no cavities. The hygienists don't know too much though.

But yeah, it seems you can't win sometimes. I've seen people with what looks like a perfect set of gums, and judging from the plaque and their breath, they don't even take good care of their mouth.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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