"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Health Consistency

SmooveMooves

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If you're a younger dude as I, this is for you. Cut out the pizza, the processed foods, empty cals, soda, and all that unhealthy crap now. Replace it with natural foods and get your sugar fix from fruits. Turn grapes into your goto snack rather then Doritos, and replace that sulfate filled shampoo with some natural shít like virgin olive oil or Jesus' sweat. Invest one week and buy a bunch of supplements, just things like vitamins and normal shít we don't get enough of during the day. Only cheat on Sat. In which you're free to consume all the pizza, weed, and alcohol you'd like.

Gym at least twice a week, stay consistent.

The positive effects these changes have on your life are astounding, remarkable, phenomenal. You become a machine; RoboCop, Terminator, Bumblebee. More energy, higher sex drive, better skin, and you just FEEL better. I cannot stress how important it is for every man to go the natural route and actually take care of their body. Don't wait until your mid thirties. Don't wait until your a fat dude at Wal-mart. Do it NOW.

Self improvement is a focal point on SoSuave. If you want to pull maximum chicks just as you would anything else, perform in your peak condition.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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Good idea with the fruit as a go to, also celery/carrots and nuts. I can't say I am able to stick to that but I've been cutting down soda intake a lot, going to the gym 4x days a week and drinking plain Americanos with nothing added.

Its always good to start early and have age gracefully, like Jordan did courtesy of his fadeaway jumper/ Tim Duncan has been doing with his fundamentals ( in this case exercise and a good diet)
 

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SmooveMooves said:
If you're a younger dude as I, this is for you. Cut out the pizza, the processed foods, empty cals, soda, and all that unhealthy crap now. Replace it with natural foods and get your sugar fix from fruits. Turn grapes into your goto snack rather then Doritos, and replace that sulfate filled shampoo with some natural shít like virgin olive oil or Jesus' sweat. Invest one week and buy a bunch of supplements, just things like vitamins and normal shít we don't get enough of during the day. Only cheat on Sat. In which you're free to consume all the pizza, weed, and alcohol you'd like.

Gym at least twice a week, stay consistent.

The positive effects these changes have on your life are astounding, remarkable, phenomenal. You become a machine; RoboCop, Terminator, Bumblebee. More energy, higher sex drive, better skin, and you just FEEL better. I cannot stress how important it is for every man to go the natural route and actually take care of their body. Don't wait until your mid thirties. Don't wait until your a fat dude at Wal-mart. Do it NOW.

Self improvement is a focal point on SoSuave. If you want to pull maximum chicks just as you would anything else, perform in your peak condition.
Its important for everyone, but it doubles or triples in importance as you get older, especially after age 35 when your hormonal levels start turning in favor of fat storage instead of muscle building unless you actively do something to stop it...

Started a new job this past week, was shadowing one of the reps in the field today and we were talking and he asked if I was married and I told him I was and then he asked for how long, and I told him we just passed 10 years...then he asked if I had kids and I told him 2 and he asked how old and I told him 8 and 5...he looked at me strangely and then asked "How old are you?" in a way where I knew he was thinking I was younger than I am(happens all the time). I laughed and asked how old he thought I was and he said "Honestly, I'd guess late 20's". I laughed and told him I wished and that I just turned 40...he looked at me and said "There is no way I would have ever guessed that...you look way younger than that..."

The 4 Secrets to Looking Young:

1) Eat Right
2) Sleep Right
3) Workout Right
4) Have Lots of Sex
 

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Wholeheartedly agreed !! Just recently I received help from out fellow member EFFORT in that regard. I had major dieting problems and its getting better and better as I strive to implement a healthy diet.
Back then I was eating white bread consistently along with cheese, pasta and binge drinking. Cut out bread entirely, cheese is now a cheat food once in a blue moon, broccoli broccoli and broccoli :D, and meat of course yumm.

Feelling better already and its just the start.

I strongly encourage everyone to at least try and stick with it for at least a month. It will work wonders.

Great posts.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yuuuup, I have a buddy that was semi obese at 43. Had a seizure like experience one day and found out he has diabetes. Doctors told him that he would have to have injections and sh1t but he told them to give him a month to try to fix it naturally (As a man should do, he took responsibility for what he had done to himself with all the junk food and decided he would fix it). He cut out all the crap from his diet, started eating mostly just fruits, vegetables, and legumes. Turned around his diabetes and now he rides his bike something like 38 miles in the morning, then goes to work as a contractor, then at the end of the day will either swim or run. He has ridiculous amounts of energy. And the funny thing is he was telling me how his workers give him crap about not eating real food, while they sit there with their mcdonalds.

He is now about to turn 45 but he looks like he is mid to late 30s. Does triathlons and ironman regularly. Seriously an inspiration and prime example of self improvement.
 

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marmel75 said:
The 4 Secrets to Looking Young:

1) Eat Right
2) Sleep Right
3) Workout Right
4) Have Lots of Sex
I've got 1 and 3 nailed. Still working on 2 and 4.
 
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