"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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been in a chicks bed sleep over four times with no sex just kissing and fondling. She told me quite a few guys are in the same predictament with her over time. Any guys out there have similiar situations...any advice with this juvenile spooning nonsense.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Actions speak louder than words dude. She's just not that into you. Walk away. Yes she will most likely "chase" you a bit afterwards.

If she does, you will either:

A) Fall back into her trap and still get stringed a longed a one-sided relationship (she gets attention, you get no sex). (you lose)
or
B) You drop her, you DHV even more because you don't settle for less than optimal situations, get your frame back and focus on new plates. (you win)
 

Nik TPT

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Sounds like she's playing games or trying to seem "hard to get" in the hopes that you will chase her further.
 
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