"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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heading towards the friend zone

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hey guys, there's this girl who just recently moved to my city just before school started. she, unfortunately, has classes and such with some of my other good friends, and has started becoming pretty good friends with them. there's no way that their friendship is going beyond that, i'm positive.

but so when i want to hang out with my friends, she's usually there. how can i start to show my attraction more than just flirting with her, which i have been doing? i don't want to get into the friend zone, but it feels like i might be starting to head that way.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ask her out somewhere. Now.
 
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Do what SinJester said, and touch her more. Don't grope her or grab her. Just an innocent touch here and there. After she's comfortable with you touching her, advance and start like putting your arm around her, like you would with your best buddies. After a while, she'll get really comfortable with you and like you a lot.
 
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