"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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heading towards the friend zone

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hey guys, there's this girl who just recently moved to my city just before school started. she, unfortunately, has classes and such with some of my other good friends, and has started becoming pretty good friends with them. there's no way that their friendship is going beyond that, i'm positive.

but so when i want to hang out with my friends, she's usually there. how can i start to show my attraction more than just flirting with her, which i have been doing? i don't want to get into the friend zone, but it feels like i might be starting to head that way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ask her out somewhere. Now.
 
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SomethingClever

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Do what SinJester said, and touch her more. Don't grope her or grab her. Just an innocent touch here and there. After she's comfortable with you touching her, advance and start like putting your arm around her, like you would with your best buddies. After a while, she'll get really comfortable with you and like you a lot.
 
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