Head games or overthinking

[Livehappy442]

Okay, So I've been texting with this girl for about 2 weeks or so she's quite interesting, attractive etc ticks my boxes.
However the past few days she'll message me first thing in the morning apologising and asking how I am. She apologises because she never replied to me answering her 'how're you' previous day, I was getting frustrated because I was keen on her. But lately I've ceased to care more and more I figure if she replies she replies if not who cares.

I'm also messaging other girls aswell rather than putting all my eggs in one basket. Another girl is keen on me and she hints at me to ask her out, So I do but whenever I do she disappears until after the day I asked her out on comes back and starts talking about 'When are we going to meet'

What am I dealing with here

 

[Billtx49]

Lack of directness. You're on your way to friend zoning yourself. Get a date commitment sooner. Two weeks of texting don't get it done.

 

[TheGambino]

Focus on rapport, attraction, fun, and making out When You meet them. Then cut texting to the minimum and ask them out for a date. If they say anything other then yes, Wait a week and try again. Another no or excuse is a delete number case until she reaches out to meet up. You are acting like an orbiter. Dont text, meet up.

 

[marmel75]

Okay, So I've been texting with this girl for about 2 weeks or so she's quite interesting, attractive etc ticks my boxes.
However the past few days she'll message me first thing in the morning apologising and asking how I am. She apologises because she never replied to me answering her 'how're you' previous day, I was getting frustrated because I was keen on her. But lately I've ceased to care more and more I figure if she replies she replies if not who cares.

I'm also messaging other girls aswell rather than putting all my eggs in one basket. Another girl is keen on me and she hints at me to ask her out, So I do but whenever I do she disappears until after the day I asked her out on comes back and starts talking about 'When are we going to meet'

What am I dealing with here

A woman who wants a guy that has clue.

Why the hell are you messaging her like you two are penpals. Should have asked her on a date within the first 4 messages. Stop playing tiddlywinks and grow some cajones.

 

[Roober]

Agreed with guys here. In the beginning, texting is for setting up dates or continuing convos she started. If she is one that texts a lot, then it may be slightly different

 

[dude99]

Okay, So I've been texting with this girl for about 2 weeks or so she's quite interesting, attractive etc ticks my boxes.
However the past few days she'll message me first thing in the morning apologising and asking how I am. She apologises because she never replied to me answering her 'how're you' previous day, I was getting frustrated because I was keen on her. But lately I've ceased to care more and more I figure if she replies she replies if not who cares.

I'm also messaging other girls aswell rather than putting all my eggs in one basket. Another girl is keen on me and she hints at me to ask her out, So I do but whenever I do she disappears until after the day I asked her out on comes back and starts talking about 'When are we going to meet'

What am I dealing with here

If she disappears before but then answers you after the day you scheduled to meet she is playing games. Especially if she is asking when you are going to meet the next day after flaking.

Delete. Next. Don't even reply.