"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Head Game vs. Sack Game

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Would you rather have a girl with great head game or be great in intercourse? You have to pick one or the other.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The titles misleading I think! I though you meant thinkin with your Head vs your Sack

anyway I think id rather choose a girl that would be able to **** my brains out for hours on end, than someone who could suck me off to Mars. usually fatties are really good with head cuz they compensate for their ugliness, but when it comes to actual sex theyre not good (except in the song Whole Lotta Rosie)
 

Leporello

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It's tough. I dated a girl who was definitely my intellectual equal (and I know this sounds arrogant but girls like that are hard to find) and the sex was great at first but got boring after a while. After we broke up I dated a girl who was kind of daft but absolutely amazing in bed. So six months in I began dreading having to talk to her when she was wearing clothes.

If only I could find a girl who had both.
 

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definitely keep the girl who can keep you on your intellectual edge. its always the girls who tease me back that keep my attention. Luckily i found on girl who has looks and who is my intellectual equal(kinda lol).
attraction is a result of how connected you feel to another human, which is demonstrated oftentimes through teasing. so keep the witty ones bro!!
 

TIC

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"Head game" is referring to fellatio, not how smart she is

you idiots
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CuriousGirl

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Leporello said:
It's tough. I dated a girl who was definitely my intellectual equal (and I know this sounds arrogant but girls like that are hard to find)....
TIC said:
"Head game" is referring to fellatio, not how smart she is

you idiots
ahahahahahhahaahahaha!


I don't think you really need to choose, you can make people better at both to some degree. Different people like different things anywa, just say what you want and ask what they like.
 

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I will teach her both so doesnt matter:D


"Head game" is referring to fellatio, not how smart she is:crackup:
 
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