"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Head Game vs. Sack Game

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Would you rather have a girl with great head game or be great in intercourse? You have to pick one or the other.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The titles misleading I think! I though you meant thinkin with your Head vs your Sack

anyway I think id rather choose a girl that would be able to **** my brains out for hours on end, than someone who could suck me off to Mars. usually fatties are really good with head cuz they compensate for their ugliness, but when it comes to actual sex theyre not good (except in the song Whole Lotta Rosie)
 

Leporello

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It's tough. I dated a girl who was definitely my intellectual equal (and I know this sounds arrogant but girls like that are hard to find) and the sex was great at first but got boring after a while. After we broke up I dated a girl who was kind of daft but absolutely amazing in bed. So six months in I began dreading having to talk to her when she was wearing clothes.

If only I could find a girl who had both.
 

loonik

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definitely keep the girl who can keep you on your intellectual edge. its always the girls who tease me back that keep my attention. Luckily i found on girl who has looks and who is my intellectual equal(kinda lol).
attraction is a result of how connected you feel to another human, which is demonstrated oftentimes through teasing. so keep the witty ones bro!!
 

TIC

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"Head game" is referring to fellatio, not how smart she is

you idiots
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CuriousGirl

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Leporello said:
It's tough. I dated a girl who was definitely my intellectual equal (and I know this sounds arrogant but girls like that are hard to find)....
TIC said:
"Head game" is referring to fellatio, not how smart she is

you idiots
ahahahahahhahaahahaha!


I don't think you really need to choose, you can make people better at both to some degree. Different people like different things anywa, just say what you want and ask what they like.
 

Alien

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I will teach her both so doesnt matter:D


"Head game" is referring to fellatio, not how smart she is:crackup:
 
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