"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HB's that are interested walk off and act like they're too good

chicksrock

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I get this a lot.

1) HB is all into me and we're talking for ages, and then HB just runs of with her girlfriend or some sh!t.
2) HB and I establish rapport and keep in touch by phone,etc...when we meet up with a group of friends....she ignores me...as if nothing special is going on between us....

Women are sometimes hard to figure out! :confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BigBadWBAFC

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I got the opposite

Usually when I meet girls I go for the extremely hot girls. Fortunately for me, whenever I say hi to them they say hi back and we get to talking alot. Maybe they feel bad for me cuz I am a hick...but either way it makes me feel good. Perhaps girls know they way to a guys heart by sweet talk. My heart just melts for that kind.
 

chicksrock

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hmmm i'm talking more so about a chick you already sort of know.
ie the time when she decides to LJBF's you or not

a lot of women act very very volatile.
if they are interested, they try to HIDE their interest
I find this a lot
 

chicksrock

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Actually maybe I should start a new thread.
 

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A PUA does not GIVE A FLYING FUCK.

A PUA would go off and sarge and flirt with other girls when he loses interest in said flakey girl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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