"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HBs and Intelligent Conversation.

Flabbergasped?

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I'm a nerd at heart, and nothing turns me on more than an intelligent, freethinking girl (preferably with hot librarian glasses). Unfortunately, 99% of HBs I meet are uninformed, preoccupied with less important matters, and just plain dumb. Even when you do find one, talking to them about politics or philosophy or all that other good stuff takes away all chances of getting with them, because a social stigma has been placed on academic discussions.

Only debate chicks can discuss intelligent issues, but they are, more often than not, vomit-inducing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sean O

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Even when you do find one, talking to them about politics or philosophy or all that other good stuff takes away all chances of getting with them, because a social stigma has been placed on academic discussions.
I'm not sure what you're referring to when you say "social stigma", but the reason intelligent conversations won't get you girls is because it won't cause them to emotionally connect with you. Use your guy friends or girls that you just want to have as friends for intellectual stimulation, and use the chicks you wanna get with for... other things :D.
 

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Sean O is correct.

Tyler Durden (not the guy in fight club), the PUA had the same problem. This is a summary of what he said: This is just the way THE GAME works, even if you don't want to run routines, kino, etc., you have to in order to get a lay. TD would also rather talk about "fun, interesting"(that are to him) topics but this won't work on the majority of females.
 
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