"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HBs and Intelligent Conversation.

Flabbergasped?

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I'm a nerd at heart, and nothing turns me on more than an intelligent, freethinking girl (preferably with hot librarian glasses). Unfortunately, 99% of HBs I meet are uninformed, preoccupied with less important matters, and just plain dumb. Even when you do find one, talking to them about politics or philosophy or all that other good stuff takes away all chances of getting with them, because a social stigma has been placed on academic discussions.

Only debate chicks can discuss intelligent issues, but they are, more often than not, vomit-inducing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sean O

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Even when you do find one, talking to them about politics or philosophy or all that other good stuff takes away all chances of getting with them, because a social stigma has been placed on academic discussions.
I'm not sure what you're referring to when you say "social stigma", but the reason intelligent conversations won't get you girls is because it won't cause them to emotionally connect with you. Use your guy friends or girls that you just want to have as friends for intellectual stimulation, and use the chicks you wanna get with for... other things :D.
 

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Sean O is correct.

Tyler Durden (not the guy in fight club), the PUA had the same problem. This is a summary of what he said: This is just the way THE GAME works, even if you don't want to run routines, kino, etc., you have to in order to get a lay. TD would also rather talk about "fun, interesting"(that are to him) topics but this won't work on the majority of females.
 
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