"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HB9 wants to join me and my buddy in Vegas

mikey2012

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HB9 I met a few months ago, wants to join me and my buddy in Vegas. I hooked up with her a few times but didn't show much interest because I'm spinning like 4 plates already which is a handful. So she asked me what I was doing this summer and I said I'm going to Vegas with my buddy.

She surprised me when she said she wants to come as well. The thing is do I let her come and treat her like another buddy or just say no and go with my buddy. I don't mind her company but it might get awkward if we go to strip clubs and stuff.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She may be trying to lock you down.
 

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HB9 reacting to your news of going to Vegas with your buddy:



It's DEFCON 5 for her :lol:
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm going to Vegas this summer so if you don't end up going with her just send her with me
 

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HB9 I met a few months ago, wants to join me and my buddy in Vegas. I hooked up with her a few times but didn't show much interest because I'm spinning like 4 plates already which is a handful. So she asked me what I was doing this summer and I said I'm going to Vegas with my buddy.

She surprised me when she said she wants to come as well. The thing is do I let her come and treat her like another buddy or just say no and go with my buddy. I don't mind her company but it might get awkward if we go to strip clubs and stuff.
basically let her know how it is, say something like "only come if you can't handle it, if you aren't snorting coke off stripper's asses, losing $50,000 in blackjack, getting into foursomes with me and two hookers, etc. then I'm sending your ass home early! :p"

absolutely do not bring her if she's not the kind of girl who knows how to have fun
 

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HB9 I met a few months ago, wants to join me and my buddy in Vegas. I hooked up with her a few times but didn't show much interest because I'm spinning like 4 plates already which is a handful. So she asked me what I was doing this summer and I said I'm going to Vegas with my buddy.

She surprised me when she said she wants to come as well. The thing is do I let her come and treat her like another buddy or just say no and go with my buddy. I don't mind her company but it might get awkward if we go to strip clubs and stuff.
I see a threesum in the horizon here. Find another hot chick and enjoy the double secks my man.
 

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Fuk that biatch . I ain't no babysitter . Don't worry I will get plenty of secks without the albatross
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fair enough, OP. She covers her expenses, fine by my book.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mikey2012

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"Hey I'm beautiful, can you bring me to Vegas for free? ;) ;)"

Don't give that ***** any freebies. She can get her own ride.
True dat. Even if I was fking her I would still think twice but given she's not ... fk that . She is pretty coz she's a model . She can find some other sucker
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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