"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hb9...hb10??

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I really think some of you guys have a messed up system or something. All I read about are 8s, 9s, 10s. Now theres nothin g wrong with that and if you guys are getting with the type of girls I picture when I see those # then more power to you.

But chances are you're not. I have only gotten with one person as high as 9 in my life. Never even seen anyone I would call a 10 and I have been around(travel alot, cities, countries..etc). Figure I usually get with 7s and occasional 8.

What do you guys consider 8s 9s 10s. For example with me, say you go to a good size club( 2 or 3 rooms multiple dance floors) in a good size city 3 mill+.

I would say on avg there are about few 9s(hottest girl in club material), decent amount of 8s (10-12), good amount of 7s, these are the girls that one guy in your group def says "now that is the hottest girl ever! and the rest of you say no shes not you moron" and then the rest 6(BJ) and below.

***if you are in LA or NY these number go out the window! haha

Think you guys are exaggerating these looks. Its not like I'm trying to call ppl out but sounds like you guys might be putting girls on a pedestal early on....and thats NO GOOD. Just leads to trouble. remember they are all *****es...haha j/k


just my 2 cents


Balla
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dirtheart

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Good point. Perhaps it's better just to define women as those you find attractive and those you don't.

I think there's also this notion that the more attractive the woman the higher her standards and I doubt that's true at all. Some of the most attractive women I know are totally insecure and end up falling madly in love with guys who have nothing going for them.
 

S0LID

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coffee doesn't taste the same to everyone.
 

S0LID

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alchohol is a diffrent ball game :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, my system is kind of like the earthquake scale. I have yet to see a perfect 10, a girl of 7 or higher is someone that catches my eye. 6 are average girls, 5s are below average, 4s and below are usually ones that I turn away from so that they wouldn't think that I'm even remotely interested. Using this scale the only way to be a 2 or something is to have a brick imprint on your face and look like some hybrid between a male and female (unfortunatelly I've seen those types too, although rarely). A 1 is also an extreme yet to be seen, I'd say something with eyeballs falling out and with 2000 lbs might manage to get a score of 1.
 
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Is it just me or does anyone else here think that a chick with a good personality can make her more sexy?(as long as she's ok and above and not a complete ug)
 

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Yes - a good personality can notch someone up a couple of points, as can the opposite.

It's all relative, but I generally see it like this:

10: Extremely rare if they exist at all. Would have to be a 'natural beauty' with a perfect figure who looks perfect without makeup first thing in the morning.
9: Very beautiful. Somebody with a perfect figure, natural film star looks needing only a bit of makeup. Not so hot first thing in the morning.
8. Very pretty. Figure slightly flawed, ie a*s a bit big, etc. 'Pretty' face with makeup but not particularly good bone structure
7. Above average looks and figure, with good dressing and makeup can be notched up to an 8 or even 9.
6. 'Girl next door'. Slightly above average looks and figure, can be notched up to a 7 with good makeup.
5. Totally average, can't really be notched up even with lots of makeup.
4. Below average - eg somewhat overweight etc. Might be considered after three pints or so.
3. Unnattractive - noticeably ugly and/or overweight.
2. Very unnattractive, ugly and overweight.
1. Rare - probably seriously deformed, or morbidly obese etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't even bother

To me they are either attractive or not, simple as that. Any more thought than that you are delaying chatting to them and building them up in your mind.
Cheers
 

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Whenever i hear dudes talking about 9's and 10's on here i immediately think 7. I think most people play it up a little.
 

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The only reason guys here write about the 8's, 9's and 10's is because they are the ones you notice and REMEMBER.

To draw an analogy... You are driving down the street, do you notice all of the Ford Lasers or Honda Civics that you see? Probably not. If you drive past a Ferrarri or Lamborghini, you notice it and remember it... it makes an impression (except for all you rich buggers out there who probably own one.)

You are seeing all of the 1's, 2's and 3's, but your mind only acknowledges them for about half a second and then they are forgotten.

There's no accounting for taste... One man's trash is another man's treasure... and any other old sayings you can think of apply here. But as far as your subconscious is concerned, if the girl doesn't rate a mention, then she is quickly forgotten. If you tell me a girl is a 9, then YOU think she is hot and that is all that counts.
 

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Who gives a **** what rankings you give...IT DOESN"T MATTER...
 
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