"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hb9 Gf Why Does She Stay With Me??

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you are passive-aggressively attacking DJing.

WHY?

"if i dj her it is wrong cause I will be controling her...."

Yet you say you don't want to be with her.... "hb9 Gf why does she stay with me???

You are flip floping your outlook on her and your relationship. I think the real question here is What the F is your Question?

Yes yes I know assume.... make an ass out of you and me, but you have to addmit that all you have said is how great it is that you can do all the things that djing tells you not to do and how djing would be just a form of controling a person, and that isn't what you want to do.

SO don't.

This is a perfect example of "
If it isn't broke don't fix it.


so to recap you have come on here telling how you got a hottie that won't leave you no matter what you do and djing isn't what you want to do, although you can. You don't want her to stop loving you since she has always loved you, yet you wounder why she hasn't left you. You have professed your love your insecurities and that is it.

OK your scared to loose her yet you know she isn't leaving so what is your problem.

If it is yourself than get counceling and keep bettering yourself like you said you are already doing.
 
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