"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hb9 Gf Why Does She Stay With Me??

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you are passive-aggressively attacking DJing.

WHY?

"if i dj her it is wrong cause I will be controling her...."

Yet you say you don't want to be with her.... "hb9 Gf why does she stay with me???

You are flip floping your outlook on her and your relationship. I think the real question here is What the F is your Question?

Yes yes I know assume.... make an ass out of you and me, but you have to addmit that all you have said is how great it is that you can do all the things that djing tells you not to do and how djing would be just a form of controling a person, and that isn't what you want to do.

SO don't.

This is a perfect example of "
If it isn't broke don't fix it.


so to recap you have come on here telling how you got a hottie that won't leave you no matter what you do and djing isn't what you want to do, although you can. You don't want her to stop loving you since she has always loved you, yet you wounder why she hasn't left you. You have professed your love your insecurities and that is it.

OK your scared to loose her yet you know she isn't leaving so what is your problem.

If it is yourself than get counceling and keep bettering yourself like you said you are already doing.
 
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