"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hb9 Gf Why Does She Stay With Me??

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you are passive-aggressively attacking DJing.

WHY?

"if i dj her it is wrong cause I will be controling her...."

Yet you say you don't want to be with her.... "hb9 Gf why does she stay with me???

You are flip floping your outlook on her and your relationship. I think the real question here is What the F is your Question?

Yes yes I know assume.... make an ass out of you and me, but you have to addmit that all you have said is how great it is that you can do all the things that djing tells you not to do and how djing would be just a form of controling a person, and that isn't what you want to do.

SO don't.

This is a perfect example of "
If it isn't broke don't fix it.


so to recap you have come on here telling how you got a hottie that won't leave you no matter what you do and djing isn't what you want to do, although you can. You don't want her to stop loving you since she has always loved you, yet you wounder why she hasn't left you. You have professed your love your insecurities and that is it.

OK your scared to loose her yet you know she isn't leaving so what is your problem.

If it is yourself than get counceling and keep bettering yourself like you said you are already doing.
 
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