"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HB9.. Finally got to meet with her. READ!

GearsGod

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So we meet up outside my pad we chilled in her car. we had a great conversation. When it was time to go I made a move and tried to kiss her and she didn't want to saying "You think I'm that easy" I asked " no, is it to early" ? and she said " Yes it is " I persisted and tried a couple more times I could also tell that she was shy as ****! so basically I left with nothing just a good convo... i know.. buull****.. Should I can her, or keep talking to her any advice??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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marmel75

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Really? You ask her THAT question? Just hand her your balls on a silver platter next time, it would be easier...
 

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LMFAO! ... Dude she even told me, " I wanna take it slow " .
 

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Personally i'd give her another shot but if she doesn't at least kiss you next time then I'd drop her
 

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Droz88 said:
Personally i'd give her another shot but if she doesn't at least kiss you next time then I'd drop her
Thanks man, I was kinda thinking the same thing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She's probably more the relationship type
 

yuppaz

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Are you into her as a potential girlfriend?
 

yuppaz

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Then you are fine, just go out with her more, male her comfortable pick a good moment and kiss the girl. Take your time, you'll be happy you did later
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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