"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HB9 chick...but shes deaf

Moofahsa

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This girl online saw my myspace profile added me and we started talking online.

Well a month in our schedules finally work out and I meet up with her yesterday. She neglected to mention she is hearing disabled. No problem really, but I have a VERY hard time understanding what shes saying...

I don't know really, shes really clingy already...stares at me all the time...which is weird because she is just gorgeous, honestly I thought a girl like that would be out of my league.

But anyhow, she has horrible spelling on the computer, which I thought was odd being she is 21...turns out she was home schooled for an hour a day after 3rd grade and can't do the GED because she can't understand the questions.

I dunno, I can tell this girl is fragile and I don't wanna go do the deed and have her go all emotional or what...but damn she is gorgeous...i don't know

What would you do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MMA Juan

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It's not worth doing the deed with this girl. She's is emotionally clingy, and if you were to do anything and leave it sounds like it will tear her apart.

There are plenty of other women, if anything, just friend this girl.
 

DJVladdy

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I'd definitely fall for this girl to tell u the truth. If a girl is hot, AND has some vulnerability about her, I'm a sucker for that.
 

bigjohnson

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Learn sign language and then you two can chat while she's blowing you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Playboy

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Moofahsa said:
This girl online saw my myspace profile added me and we started talking online.

Well a month in our schedules finally work out and I meet up with her yesterday. She neglected to mention she is hearing disabled. No problem really, but I have a VERY hard time understanding what shes saying...

I don't know really, shes really clingy already...stares at me all the time...which is weird because she is just gorgeous, honestly I thought a girl like that would be out of my league.

But anyhow, she has horrible spelling on the computer, which I thought was odd being she is 21...turns out she was home schooled for an hour a day after 3rd grade and can't do the GED because she can't understand the questions.

I dunno, I can tell this girl is fragile and I don't wanna go do the deed and have her go all emotional or what...but damn she is gorgeous...i don't know

What would you do?
F-u-c-k her and leave her -- cause ya dont need her -- bit-ches aint nothin but hoes and tricks.

nah just playin

Do what you think is right and that lets you sleep tonight. Just remember that deaf girls like sex too. It's not her vagina that has the handycap. In fact I would say it's almost a blessing for her, she doesnt have to listen to guys with shytty game does she?
 
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What is her purpose in meeting you? For a LTR? Is this what you want? She probably feels rejected due to her problems, but you shouldn't reject her for this fact alone! If she's a hor then it doesn't matter!!
 

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DUDE this is a godsend, you don't need to speak to her all the time about useless sh!t, she's less likely to cheat on you! F*ck I wish I had a deaf women, and her speling is probably bad, because it's harder to learn without hearing sh!t. OMG this is aswome, your so lucky.
 

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I dont know, its a though situation. I guess you have to ask your self what do you want out of this girl. If you want to hit and run than thats cool but you got to understand that she will take it really really hard. She already probobly thinks her life is horrible due to her problem and than you can even make it worse. If you think that you can date here long term than i would continue but if not than just be friends with her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Effington

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Sounds like a decision you have to make...personally, I'm a sucker for a hottie, I guess I'm pretty superficial, but at least I recognize it.

I don't like the "hit and run" option unless it's mutual, otherwise it's disrespectful. It sounds like you're really playing up this intelligence thing, but if she's really a box of rocks then perhaps she qualifies for booty call...
 
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