"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HB9 chick...but shes deaf

Moofahsa

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This girl online saw my myspace profile added me and we started talking online.

Well a month in our schedules finally work out and I meet up with her yesterday. She neglected to mention she is hearing disabled. No problem really, but I have a VERY hard time understanding what shes saying...

I don't know really, shes really clingy already...stares at me all the time...which is weird because she is just gorgeous, honestly I thought a girl like that would be out of my league.

But anyhow, she has horrible spelling on the computer, which I thought was odd being she is 21...turns out she was home schooled for an hour a day after 3rd grade and can't do the GED because she can't understand the questions.

I dunno, I can tell this girl is fragile and I don't wanna go do the deed and have her go all emotional or what...but damn she is gorgeous...i don't know

What would you do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MMA Juan

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It's not worth doing the deed with this girl. She's is emotionally clingy, and if you were to do anything and leave it sounds like it will tear her apart.

There are plenty of other women, if anything, just friend this girl.
 

DJVladdy

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I'd definitely fall for this girl to tell u the truth. If a girl is hot, AND has some vulnerability about her, I'm a sucker for that.
 

bigjohnson

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Learn sign language and then you two can chat while she's blowing you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Moofahsa said:
This girl online saw my myspace profile added me and we started talking online.

Well a month in our schedules finally work out and I meet up with her yesterday. She neglected to mention she is hearing disabled. No problem really, but I have a VERY hard time understanding what shes saying...

I don't know really, shes really clingy already...stares at me all the time...which is weird because she is just gorgeous, honestly I thought a girl like that would be out of my league.

But anyhow, she has horrible spelling on the computer, which I thought was odd being she is 21...turns out she was home schooled for an hour a day after 3rd grade and can't do the GED because she can't understand the questions.

I dunno, I can tell this girl is fragile and I don't wanna go do the deed and have her go all emotional or what...but damn she is gorgeous...i don't know

What would you do?
F-u-c-k her and leave her -- cause ya dont need her -- bit-ches aint nothin but hoes and tricks.

nah just playin

Do what you think is right and that lets you sleep tonight. Just remember that deaf girls like sex too. It's not her vagina that has the handycap. In fact I would say it's almost a blessing for her, she doesnt have to listen to guys with shytty game does she?
 
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What is her purpose in meeting you? For a LTR? Is this what you want? She probably feels rejected due to her problems, but you shouldn't reject her for this fact alone! If she's a hor then it doesn't matter!!
 

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DUDE this is a godsend, you don't need to speak to her all the time about useless sh!t, she's less likely to cheat on you! F*ck I wish I had a deaf women, and her speling is probably bad, because it's harder to learn without hearing sh!t. OMG this is aswome, your so lucky.
 

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I dont know, its a though situation. I guess you have to ask your self what do you want out of this girl. If you want to hit and run than thats cool but you got to understand that she will take it really really hard. She already probobly thinks her life is horrible due to her problem and than you can even make it worse. If you think that you can date here long term than i would continue but if not than just be friends with her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Effington

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Sounds like a decision you have to make...personally, I'm a sucker for a hottie, I guess I'm pretty superficial, but at least I recognize it.

I don't like the "hit and run" option unless it's mutual, otherwise it's disrespectful. It sounds like you're really playing up this intelligence thing, but if she's really a box of rocks then perhaps she qualifies for booty call...
 
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