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HB8 thinks I like her cause of her looks

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Hello!
This girl I'm in to, she's a HB8 or HB9. She thinks I just like her cause of her looks, but that's so wrong! I like her cause of her personality, she's so sweet and funny. What should I do to let her know this?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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First of all LIAR! You know damned well that personality and wit are just the icing on your HB cake. You were attracted to her because of her looks BEFORE you met her and started talking to her then you liked her personality as well.

Anyway this is a rotutine pick up and there's TONS of information on this site about how to pick a girl rotinely.
 

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yeah, oky, I like her looks, but her personality more.
 

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sbgm said:
yeah, oky, I like her looks, but her personality more.
Don't take this the wrong way, but it sounds like AFC denial there.

Anyways, you let her know by qualifying her, on her personality traits.

Eg. "Oh you are getting so boring these days, are you adventurous? Cause im usually only friends with adventurous people".

Something like that, im sure you get the idea.

Basically, get her to prove her personality to you.

Good luck

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah, I'll think of that
 

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sbgm said:
Hello!
This girl I'm in to, she's a HB8 or HB9. She thinks I just like her cause of her looks, but that's so wrong! I like her cause of her personality, she's so sweet and funny. What should I do to let her know this?

Looks like you scored a 10 out of a possible NINE on the lie detector....
 

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Haha. :crackup:

I couldn't get over the fact you said that sbgm.....


"This girl I'm in to, she's a HB8 or HB9. [yet I like her because of her personality, she's so wrong that I like her because she's a HB8 or HB9]"
 

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tell her, "beauty is common, but your personality is not". Tell her she has a big head for thinking that. or

"Well if you think that, are you saying that you have a **** personality?" Ok don't worry about it then, I'm gona go find someone with a personality. Then approach the first chick an ask her if she is a kind person.

Think of some bullsh!t along those lines.

peace
 

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Docs said:
Haha. :crackup:

I couldn't get over the fact you said that sbgm.....


"This girl I'm in to, she's a HB8 or HB9. [yet I like her because of her personality, she's so wrong that I like her because she's a HB8 or HB9]"
Dammit Docs...once again you beat me to it! :rockon: Good call!
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

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famous thread now... :p
 
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