"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HB8 thinks I like her cause of her looks

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Hello!
This girl I'm in to, she's a HB8 or HB9. She thinks I just like her cause of her looks, but that's so wrong! I like her cause of her personality, she's so sweet and funny. What should I do to let her know this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First of all LIAR! You know damned well that personality and wit are just the icing on your HB cake. You were attracted to her because of her looks BEFORE you met her and started talking to her then you liked her personality as well.

Anyway this is a rotutine pick up and there's TONS of information on this site about how to pick a girl rotinely.
 

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yeah, oky, I like her looks, but her personality more.
 

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sbgm said:
yeah, oky, I like her looks, but her personality more.
Don't take this the wrong way, but it sounds like AFC denial there.

Anyways, you let her know by qualifying her, on her personality traits.

Eg. "Oh you are getting so boring these days, are you adventurous? Cause im usually only friends with adventurous people".

Something like that, im sure you get the idea.

Basically, get her to prove her personality to you.

Good luck

-Lust.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yeah, I'll think of that
 

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sbgm said:
Hello!
This girl I'm in to, she's a HB8 or HB9. She thinks I just like her cause of her looks, but that's so wrong! I like her cause of her personality, she's so sweet and funny. What should I do to let her know this?

Looks like you scored a 10 out of a possible NINE on the lie detector....
 

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Haha. :crackup:

I couldn't get over the fact you said that sbgm.....


"This girl I'm in to, she's a HB8 or HB9. [yet I like her because of her personality, she's so wrong that I like her because she's a HB8 or HB9]"
 

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tell her, "beauty is common, but your personality is not". Tell her she has a big head for thinking that. or

"Well if you think that, are you saying that you have a **** personality?" Ok don't worry about it then, I'm gona go find someone with a personality. Then approach the first chick an ask her if she is a kind person.

Think of some bullsh!t along those lines.

peace
 

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Docs said:
Haha. :crackup:

I couldn't get over the fact you said that sbgm.....


"This girl I'm in to, she's a HB8 or HB9. [yet I like her because of her personality, she's so wrong that I like her because she's a HB8 or HB9]"
Dammit Docs...once again you beat me to it! :rockon: Good call!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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famous thread now... :p
 
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