"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HB7-8 messing with my head at work?

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I am 31, she is 21 and we work in a small environment. I am full time and she is part-time and we don't work in the same department.

Girl has been flirty since day one. However, I did not see her much and would only talk to her in passing. One day she asked me to go on break with her one day and I sort of asked her out. She told me she has a b/f.

Fast forward a few weeks later and now we are e-mailing each other.

She compliments me all of the time (Tall, dark and handsome etc), told her mom about me and even stopped upstairs to see me on her day off (she had to pick something up at work) the other day.

The other day she told me to stop by downstairs before I left to see how nice she looks.


THe thing is.......being a guy I am the MINORITY in the workplace and really the only decent looking guy in the place. My gut tells me she is just using me as an ego boost or maybe it makes her feel good than an older guy at work is flirting with her. The thing is though, she flirts more than I do.

What do you guys think?

It sucks because I am very attracted to her and I think about her all of the time (onenites)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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devils3777 said:
I am 31, she is 21 and we work in a small environment. I am full time and she is part-time and we don't work in the same department.

Girl has been flirty since day one. However, I did not see her much and would only talk to her in passing. One day she asked me to go on break with her one day and I sort of asked her out. She told me she has a b/f.

Fast forward a few weeks later and now we are e-mailing each other.

She compliments me all of the time (Tall, dark and handsome etc), told her mom about me and even stopped upstairs to see me on her day off (she had to pick something up at work) the other day.

The other day she told me to stop by downstairs before I left to see how nice she looks.


THe thing is.......being a guy I am the MINORITY in the workplace and really the only decent looking guy in the place. My gut tells me she is just using me as an ego boost or maybe it makes her feel good than an older guy at work is flirting with her. The thing is though, she flirts more than I do.

What do you guys think?

It sucks because I am very attracted to her and I think about her all of the time (onenites)
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aye, been in this situation many times. All i can say is, just keep leading her on.. don't make the first move.

You need to beat her at her own game. make sexual innuendos, tease her but don't make a move. Don't listen to these guys here saying "oh she's gona think you are gay if you don't make a move soon"

Trust me, SHE will make the move..its just a matter of time

Guys are in the eastern time zone in terms of sex and women are in the pacific time zone.
 
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Yeah, but I think it is all fake or her boyfriend does not give her enough attention, who the hell knows.

People already think there is stuff going on between us because she said her co-workers downstairs whisper when they see us together.

I work in a small 30 person enviroment that is made up mostly of middle aged women. These women love any gossip...
 
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ey, thats great if people think something is going on between you guys. You are being ADVERTISED and others in the workplace will follow the train soon.

So yeah, DONT make the first move but keep teasing, making sexual innuendos and she will cave in
 
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i think thats the best weapon against Attention wh0res. U know what, i'd say 1 out of every 10 are attention *****s
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ey, thats great if people think something is going on between you guys. You are being ADVERTISED and others in the workplace will follow the train soon.

So yeah, DONT make the first move but keep teasing, making sexual innuendos and she will cave in
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Yeah, but you have to realize THIS IS MY CAREER, not some job I don't care about. Most other people tell me I should stay clear of this girl like the plague.
 
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i caved into an attention wh0re as i have previously posted here (my first time ever just to try it out and i DIDNT get the number)

But seriously, women will LET YOU KNOW if they want you.
 
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just get her number the day she quits BUT she might turn cold by then (whenever that is)

or

just leave her alone
 
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You are on your own here. U should know the pros and cons by now. or just use her for ego boost =))))
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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